this is hell?

Question

well i have this friend and she is going out with an other friend of
mines but recently they have bin arguing alot and the other day she told me that she realy needs to find a better boyfriend. now the problem is i have one hell of a crush on her and i dont know what to do. one side of me wants them to break up so that i can ask her her out but then an other side of me is scared that if i do ask her out and im not good enough for her it will end our friendship.
and at the same time a part of me wants to see her happy even if its with him im so confused please help me

p.s: im a guy

Answer 1

okk u need to ask her out..if she isnt happy with her current boyfriend..step up and ask her. for all u know ur her future husband. u never know until u try. and if u break up then most likely u will stay friends. if u dont stay friends then u never really were friends..cuz true friends never stop being friends because they stopped dating...trust me on this..just ask her out

Answer 2

Stay cool just tell her if she need to talk you'll be there for her, but never I mean never tell her anything that your other friend say about her, you don't want both of them to find out your hoping the will break up so you can ask her out.

Just play it cool and be there for her and let the chip feel where the lie.

Good luck and be right when she need you.

Answer 3

Tell her that if she does need someone to come to, you'll take care of her. At least you have the friend angle. And if you counsel her it allows her feel more relaxed and trusting of you.

From that slowly just go out with her to do normal or fun things, and ask if she wants to start having a relationship.

As to her relationship with the other guy just remind her that you really want to see her happy, that you want to take care of her or for her to solve her problems.

Answer 4

first off you need really think about what your saying you either really enjoy your friendship and would never want to ruin what you have there or you like her to much and would like to take that chance. second its natural to want her to be happy no matter what she is a good friend and you really like her and third if you feel those first 2 you should not want them to break but know that if they do you think about what you'd like to do keep the good friendship or take a risk and ask her out.

Answer 5

Above all, you should be concerned what is best for you. Is she good enough for you? Do you think she likes you as more than a friend? What about your buddy though? Is possibly dating this girl more important to your friendship with her current boyfriend? If you answer "yes" to these questions, then tell her you're interested. Usually when somene is concerned that he isn't good enough for someone else, he is good enough. :)

Answer 6

First make sure she is truly broken off the relationship-- otherwise she will not like you if you try to come between them- If they are broken up she will be a little depressed--She needs your frienship-- keep it simple and be in touch with her daily--when she sees how attentive you are to her she will love you for it- and who knows where it will go from there-

Answer 7

just do what u feel like u need to do most. one thing is that this might be your only chance to go out with her cause she might never like u again.

Answer 8

We already figured you were a guy by your avatar. So much drama...

If they do break up, then ask her out.

Answer 9

No one can make this decision for you. Can you understand this quote: "Faint heart never won fair maiden" ?

Answer 10

give her little clues telling her you like her...and see how she kinda responds...if they break up ask her out and see how it goes...if it doesn't work out you can always stay friends.