can someone tell me how quick?

Question

I can forget about my ex-boyfriend.
cos i cant 4get him, I keep calling him, begging him everyday, crying everyday on phone. can someone give me a quick advice before I hurt myself pls.

Answer 1

Hmmm, you need to enjoy life...Go out with your friends and find a "new" one if possible...

Answer 2

You can't just forget him. But you can get a grip and act with dignity. If you feel that you are going to call him, call a girlfriend instead. Start going out and doing things. Force yourself a little bit. Read Who Moved My Cheese. Move on with your life. No-one like a watering-pot!

Answer 3

The best way is to stop all the crazy stuff. Get a little self respect already. Cut of all interaction with him and then go out and find someone new when you're ready. No matter how great you thought he was..how bad do you really want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you??? think about it.

Answer 4

I'm going through it at the moment too. Best to keep yourself occupied doing anything that distracts you from him & give your mate your phone to look after so you can't call him.

He isn't worth hurting yourself over, he just isn't the one for you. Out there is someone really special just waiting to find you.

Answer 5

When I first broke up with my ex i was like you. But then i said that i should give her space, so i backed off for a year WITHOUT moving on. The result: She wants to get back with me now after a year of patience.

Answer 6

I don't want to be funny here but you need to stop fast before he speaks to the police about getting a harrassment order taken out against you. I know this truth is harsh but you need to hear it. You will get over this guy so please don't give yourself something to look back on and feel bitterly embarrassed about.

The best way to get to him and to help yourself is to move on with head held high. Yeah for sure you'll feel pants inside but have some pride in yourself and the rest will follow.

Answer 7

Please do not beg or cry. I know it hurts at the moment but please do not undermine yourself by chaseing something you cannot have. Time will be good to you and you'll be happier I promise. You are only hurting yourself by your actions and you will regret it in the future for making an A** of yourself. Everybody feels abandoned and rejected at sometime in their lives but we all have to deal with it. And we normally do it with good success and so will you I promise you.

Answer 8

You are acting like a stalker. Get a grip before you get into trouble. Go to the ER if you are afraid you will hurt yourself. You need immediate help.

Answer 9

hurting yourself over a guy that does not want to be around you is one of the dumbest things i have ever heard of..........grow the fuc* up and get over him.........he is not the last guy on earth, oh geeze, how do i know? because i look out my door every day and see all kinds of people.....some guys, some girls.......yeah you spent some fun times with him, smootched on him, held hands.........but now it is over...he knows it, and so should you. move on and dry your eyes, and quit this shi* talk about hurting yourself............you are a very beautiful person and have the ability to find someon else...........

Answer 10

Stop being pathetic. You're only making your ex hate you, and you don't want that, do you? Keep your mind on other things - maybe go meet a new boy. But, whatever you do, don't be pathetic. Good luck.

Answer 11

oh well for one dont be like that it makes u seem obsessed...juss take some time off from these kinds of things and think things through before u end up doing something ull regret trust me juss sit down and think for a while