I asked this girl, that I have known for a long time, out to the movies. She replied as follows " I would love to go to a movie with you sometime. Sasha and Dijana (2 of her girlfreinds) and I go to the movies sometime on Friday nights so you are more than welcome to join us sometime. I will let you know when is the next time we are going so you can join us" So does this mean that she only sees me as a freind at best? I did not want to ask her this myself, since I did not want to put her in an awkward situation.
2007-02-11 06:50:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she just said that so you would say but I wanna go with just you..tell her its just the 2 of u.
2007-02-18 23:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That may be the case, or she may just want to get to know you better before she agrees to "date" you. Don't come right out and ask her because she may not have an answer. Go with the flow. See how things go. Don't be in such a rush. Later, after you've spent more time with her and her friends, tell her you'd like to spend time with her alone.
I just re-read your question. You've known her for a long time? Do you feel that she knows you? If you think so, than I'd say yes -she just wants to be friends. Otherwise, give it some more time.
2007-02-19 08:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough question to answer. But I can say this. I am a shy girl and that is probably what I would end up saying. Having friends by her side could make her feel more confident. So don't give up on her yet. Go to the movies with her and look further into the situation. Your not down and out yet.
2007-02-18 20:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by iluvmymusic 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You could ask her to go for coffee or to go to something else. She can either say yes or now and it would not put her in an awkward situation. She maybe shy or not ready to go out without female backup but she has offered you the chance to join her and friends so you could do that and slowly get to know her and she you.
2007-02-18 22:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by genie81au 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like she just wants to get to know you a little better outside of school or wherever you usually do,so if it goes well then ask her out again sometime
2007-02-19 14:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, she just probably misunderstood. Ask her or email her or get her alone sometime and ask her if you and her can go out for a coffee alone. If she says no, then she is either not ready to have a boyfriend or she does just wants to be friends. Life is too short to live with regret. Just ask her and everything will be fine. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 14:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think she wants her friends to meet you so that they can say whether or not you are good for her. The best friends always have to sign off on relationships. My advice to you is GO. Make sure to keep you stlye in check to make a good impression on her friends. They will realize you are perfect for her. Good luck.
2007-02-19 12:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with starting out as friends? She sounds like she is comfortable with you going to the show with her and her friends. Why not give it a try--you never know what will come of it. When our boys were dating, we all went together to the show. We had a great time. After we all went for something to eat and got to know the girls better. There's
nothing wrong with going in a group. It can be a lot of fun. And who knows maybe she is the one for you---or maybe not. Give it a shot.
2007-02-19 01:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by Garnet 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A lot of girls rely on their friends for situations just like these. Getting in with the friends is just as important as scoring a date with just her. She may not have a set opinion of you yet and wants to see if you will get freaked out. First dates can be akward, thats why girls tend to bring their friends along to ease the tension on their part. In a sense it could be a test of your personality and if you can be around her with her friends.
2007-02-19 02:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by girl_like_you 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you would like to take her out without the friends. Life is just too short and sweet to play games. If she says no, then you know and have not wasted any more time wondering. If she says yes, then you can move forward with the relationship.
2007-02-18 12:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋