What is your opinion on sustaining virginity? If so, for what reasons?

Question

I plan on keeping my virginity until I find my first love who is worthy of it. What do you all think?

Answer 1

That's a great idea.

Your first time is always going to be remembered, and it kind of sets a subtle pattern for the way you approach sex for the rest of your life, or at least for the first few years there after.

Keep sex somewhat sacred. Too many people just loose thier virginity now a-days because they think that's what they are supposed to do, or because everyone is doing it. That just takes away from sex, and creates a "it's just sex" mentality. Then you end up with teen pregnancies, unstructured famililies, emotional problems, never ending circles of bad relationships and disease.

Stick to your plan. You will set youself up for a future healthy sex life.

Answer 2

Usually virginity is a religion based decision. If you're seriously religious and this is important to you, then find a girl who has the same values.
But if you're not restricted by religion then it's extremely practical in the modern world to go out and find someone who is compatable with you sexually as well as everywhere else. There are 6+ billion people on the planet. It doesn't make much sense to marry someone you've never slept with just because it sounds like a good moral idea when it may be that this person doesn't like sex at all, but you want it every day. Or maybe the person you marry doesn't appreciate your equipment and may spend a long unhappy marriage with you because they aren't satisfied. Both parties may be unhappy but if religion got you into the marriage then religion may keep you from rectifying the mistake.

Answer 3

I think you should do as you wish.
Personally, I believe that I can either stay a virgin until I meet someone who's clean (ahh, this world is disusting) and beautiful ^_^, or I'm 18. Either way, I don't really care. I think it's over-rated. I'm not waiting until I get married!! Why?
I mean, what if I marry some guy and finally have sex just to find out that I married the wrong person! Not cool. Not worth it.

But... you might have found the right person.

<3
stranger.

Answer 4

I think that is a great plan. I dont think u should give it up to just anyone. Most people dont wait till their really inlove or married. I am however like u waiting for the right person. Good luck Hope u find that lucky girl.

Answer 5

I agree..I'm also planing to keep my virginity until I find someone.. I think that it is wrong to have sex with somebody for who you don't have any feelings at all..It just isn't right...I had many oportunities to do it with someone I love, but I didn't..I don't know why, but it just didn't felt right..but also, my friends are telling me that I don't know what I'm missing..:)

Answer 6

I think saving your virginity is a good idea. This way, when it happens, it means alot more and you will remember it forever.

Answer 7

i think pre mariggal sex is a horrible thing and u shoul dkeep ur viginity. plus u can get STDs, AIDS, HIV, pregnant ( condoms ar only 85% accurate with perfect use) i wouldnt tak the chance and 1 of 5 young people suffer from an StD so dotn think "o i would get one"

Answer 8

Best news I've heard all day.
Something very special and not everyone should get it.
Kudos to you for saving it for the one you love.
Something to cherish for the rest of you life.

Answer 9

i agree. keeping your virginity untill your w/ someone who love is great. it means more and it's more special. also i beleive in waiting untill your married just because when your married your w/ someone who loves you and won't judge you.

Answer 10

V. Bachelor, you are a good man, but you have to wait until the wedding night, our God, wants it that way. The union will be truely blessed if you do