have you ever been in a situation with your partner where letting her go was one of the best way to show your love to her ...even if you know that there is someone else waiting for her ...but you decide to let go because the relationship cannot work out and you both were unhappy ..!!?
2007-02-11 06:19:58 · 3 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard of. Playing mind games is the best way to screw up your relationship. When there are troubles in a relationship, you need to work through the issues as a couple. You letting her go will make her feel like she was not worth the effort of trying to work things out. If you choose to do this, things will NEVER be the same between you two. She will always remember that when the going gets tough...you run away. She will always remember the hurt she felt when you broke up with her and it will be very difficult for you to regain her trust. If you two are already having troubles...why add more to the plate?
If you love her and see ANY possibility for a future together...try to work it out. If anything, discuss maybe spending some time apart, while staying committed to each other.
Are you going to be OK with her being with someone else and hating you...just to realize that you want to be with her again? If so, follow your gut and go ahead with your plan. If not, try to work things out.
2007-02-11 06:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by smeggitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, And that takes a strong human to do that. U let her go because both of u were unhappy, But u still love her. U showed her a great deal of respect, and your self to. It takes a strong mad or woman to let go of any thing. I hope I helped out.
2007-02-11 06:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by honey.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kinda feel that way right now.
2007-02-11 06:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋