We have been fighting for 3 months now. I try being nice and resolving our problems, but then he answers,"You're annoying leave me alone." So today, I IM'ed him and he still answers me. Heres the convo.
Me: Get over the fact that you think I still like you, I don't.
Ex: I never thought you did. As a matter of fact, I dont think your good looking. I think you're ugly, I guess. You probably think the same about me. But I dont really give a crap.
He broke up with me cuz he said I got annoying, when I was just trying to keep our relationship together by calling, and e-mailing cuz we never talked in person! He is really immature as you can see, and he was too obssessed with playing video games to hang out with me or talk to me. Strangly, I can't get over him even though I have another b/f. When I told him about my new b/f, he said,"Oh yeah, but I like 2 girls!" IDK if he's jelous or what, how do I move on?
2007-02-11 06:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, should I burn my diary with all of my memories of him?
2007-02-11 06:29:05 · update #1
Your question begins "I still love my ex"...your e-mail states: you think I still like you, I don't." I think you are being immature. Leave him alone. Stop e-mailing him. Stop IMing him. I think he tried to give you a hint by not calling, e-mailing or IMing himself. He wanted it over but didn't want to deal with being the "bad guy". Typical avoidance technique. You need to learn to take a hint better. He's way done with you.
2007-02-11 06:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sever all connections. No more calls. No IM's. No e-mail. No contact. Take some time to be with the new bf and allow your ex to move on as well. If after 6 months you still feel for eachother and do not feel the need to berate eachother via IM - then try to take another, more educated and mature stab at the relationship. Time apart allows for clarity of many issues. MOst of the time we just want what we "can't have," thus making the chase much more fun. Ask yourself, if you really still want him, or just the idea of him.
2007-02-11 14:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me move on,the fact that he was more interested in video games than you should tell you something.Been there, it never gets no better. He only said that to you because you told him you have a new boyfriend, not because he's jealous only because he's immature as you stated. Put your efforts into your new boyfriend, maybe he will appreciate your emails, and phone calls.Don't give him the time of day,as a matter of fact when you see him be nice, let him know that your happy without him. Good luck
2007-02-11 14:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You want to get over him, but you still converse with him.
1st- Cut off all communication with him. You'll both get over each other a lot sooner.
2nd- It's obvious that you're both too young and immature to even be dating. A mature person doesn't play video games when they're with their mate, and a mature person doesn't start another relationship before getting over their last one. I'd seriously advise you to give it a year or two before dating anyone else. You need some time to get to know your self before getting to know someone else.
2007-02-11 14:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you're thinking about a guy who would choose a video game over you. You deserve better girl. Move on and spend time with ur new bf.
2007-02-11 14:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you guys are going any where... Not even to friends. That may stink, but he thinks its great. And I think putting you down may be away to show off he does not like you. Well, if you try to be nice and he does not do the same back, then be mean to him for a while to show him what it feels like. Good Luck!!
2007-02-11 14:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you shouldn't have said that ur over him if ur really not. he may have still liked you but he didn't want to waste his time bothering if you don't like him. you should just set him aside abd focus on ur new bf cause he doesn't deserve ur time and luv if he is gonna call you ugly. maybe u were trying to hard to get back 2gether. Just think again before you and ur new bf get serious and make sure that you won't get hurt again, i hope that this helps.
2007-02-11 14:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by egaemmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start thinking of him like the rude, loser that he is. Convince yourself he is a piece of sh...- and you will begin to see you are way better off w out him. Now focus your attention on yourself- carrier, body, mind and spirit. O ya- if you have a new boyfriend just read the signs- if he is more into video games than you- move on
2007-02-11 14:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by dustin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about him and get on with your life, theres plenty of guys out there and i think hes just diong that because he still likes you and is a bit jealous that you have another boyfriend. Get on with your life....
2007-02-11 14:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put some of that energy into your self like a make over or take a class in dance or sports anything that takes up your energy so you wont have time to think of him or your problems .
2007-02-11 14:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by sehoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋