Im still in love with my ex boyfriend but he cant find the time for me with his job and he owns beef cattle he did not have untill this yr we have been together for close to 5 yrs he claims he has no way out of this because he has so much money invested into the beef cattle so ya im the one who looses in this deal he claims he loves me but he has to do this so im sad
2007-02-11 06:15:03 · 9 answers · asked by angelblossom1963 3 in Pets ➔ Cats
unfortunately, if he was still in love with you, he would make time for you...but if he says he still loves you, then try finding ways to help him with his work or his cattle so he has more time to spend with you. it sounds like he is making an excuse, though. i had the same thing happen to me, and then the guy ended up marrying some other girl like 9 months later...i hope that doesn't happen to you.
2007-02-11 06:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. Here's the thing about most men. They have something built into them that drives them to make money so they can be providers for the ones they love - even if that means not spending much time with the ones they love. So if you're the one who left, him, then maybe that's the case.
However, if he dumped you, then you've gotta move on. Sorry.
2007-02-11 14:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by tuff~luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This man is sending a message you are not hearing, otherwise he would have married you by now and you would be his partner in this project and his life.
Men don't like to be the one to break up, so they set it up so you leave them. I think it would be difficult to actually love someone who doesn't love you anymore, you are hanging on to the past.
Depends on how much more of your life you want to waste before starting a life of your own with a future.
2007-02-11 14:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not very mature are you? you need to move on and get on with life which is exactly what he has done. i was in the exact same business and operated a ranch with over 5000 head of cattle and farmed nearly 10000 acres and always had time for my girl, always!
2007-02-11 14:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bologna: When a man loves a woman he finds the time. Think he is trying to tell you in a nice way to move on.
2007-02-15 12:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is this related to pets or cats?
In answer to your question, if your man can't find time for you, then you need to find a new one. He has set his priorities, and unless you want to take a second seat to a bunch of cows, you might want to find a new guy who will make you a priority in his life.
2007-02-11 14:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a cat is that what your asking? since you are in the cat section I'm assuming this has something to do with cats.
2007-02-11 14:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by macleod709 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lost me, if he's your ex why should he try to find time for you, and what does this have to do with cats? ! ?
2007-02-11 14:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by TechChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-11 14:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny Conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋