i'm been worring about my-self..like that i might get preginant this summer or next year....and i gotta guy stalker who follows me every where and he is a teen and i'm startin to get afraid of him...and dont know how to get over this afraidness....
thanxs
2007-02-11 06:14:00 · 11 answers · asked by ·.·•ς๏ς๏•·.· 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to me very seriously. You do not play with stalkers...not at all. If this teen is a guy at your school then you go to campus security or whatever passes for that at you school (principal/whatever). A teen will not usually go any farther if you tell someone about the problem and they have a talk with him. He'll back WAY off. If not, tell security again and this time he'll get a hard lesson from them.
As for pregnancy, use birth control...no more worries, and if you're younger than 20 then don't have sex! You're not emotionally ready. If you were you wouldn't have to come on here and ask anyone what to do.
Good luck with the stalker. Trust my advice.
2007-02-11 06:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, go to the Dr. and get yourself on birth control. This will ease your mind and take the stress of getting pregnant off your mind. But also use condumns if you don't know the person well so you don't get yourself sick or get aides or something. As for the stauker, you should go to the police station and tell them whats going on and what should you do give them this guys name if you know it, or when he follows you go the the police station. If you don't want to do that, call an assaulted women's help line, in the front of the yellow pages, and tell them what is going on and what is the best way for you to protect yourself and if there is anything else you can do.
2007-02-11 14:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to keep a log or diary regarding this kid.
The second thing to do is make a police report because stalking in most states is illegal. Odds are, the police will have a "friendly chat" with the kid.
Another possibility is that some states allow you to seek a personal protective order (PPO).
Lastly, don't bear the burden alone. Tell your family and friends.
2007-02-11 14:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is this guy?
Have you tried talking to him?
It could be you are the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and does not know how to approach you.
If it is really scary.
Then get your Father or Uncle to have a talk with him.
If this is not an option then the police will have a talk with him.
If you are afraid of getting raped, try not to go anywhere alone and stay out of dark areas.
I hope this helps
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2007-02-11 14:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my sister has the same problem except it's with her psycho ex boyfriend.Try hanging out with a group of your friends, it doesn't have to be a big group just two or three, so that you can feel like your not alone. If that doesn't help you feel better, then contact the police.
2007-02-11 15:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. First of all, you can't get pregnant if you dont have sex, or if u do, use a condom. Second, if you're really scared about this teen talk to him, tell him to buzz off or you'l get higher authority involved. If he doesnt listen, then make good on ur word.
2007-02-11 14:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u may not be a teen yet just saying no & not doing it will keep you from getting pregnate for ever but if you do it you might get that way now if you really think this boy is stalking you tell your parents about your fears & ask for there help
2007-02-11 14:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by slapjack458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly it's paranoia. Talk to all your friends and tell them what you think. Since they know you better than random people on yahoo answers, they can help you best
2007-02-11 14:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to get pregnant unless you make the decision to practice unprotected sex...and you should tell someone about your stalker...
2007-02-11 14:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry , go and ask this guy about his name and what does he want from u , don't be afraid
2007-02-11 14:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Luv Rulz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋