You know the type: sweet, innocent, nice-guy charm. Grace, intelligence, humour. Bit shy and 'nerdy.' Behaves like a gentleman, yet isn't a useless doormat. Positive, breezy, light energies. Not bogged down with negative things. Does sweet and romantic things.
Is he a sap, or is he attractive?
2007-02-11 05:56:17 · 24 answers · asked by The Global Geezer 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh this is a difficult question! Firstly it depends entirely on the girl. But it also depends, unfortunately, about how physically attractive he is. A guy like that who's tall and handsome and women will love him, a guy like that who doesn't stand out in any way won't stand out in any way, usually (again, depending on the girl). And the pertinent question is how sweet is he? You said he wasn't a doormat and that's kind of the point, there are plenty of girls who like good, nice guys but want somebody who is emotionally and mentally strong as well. Also some degree of sexual energy is good as well. My ex was a good guy, and you'd never think that he was so, erm, passionate! But he was, and I think that the better guys with a little more to them are the best lovers. (I hate the word 'lovers'). Anyway, yeah, this guy sounds great, I'd be up for it. But you have to get out that! Without question the most successful guys with women are the ones that ACTUALLY ASK GIRLS OUT. Seriously, I just can't believe how many fantastic guys are shy and never end up going out with anybody because they don't make the first move. Just ask a girl out, don't chase for weeks or be all soppy, just be nice, show (in a small way) that you're interested, give her a couple of days to like the idea and then ask her out "Do you want to go for a drink?" "Can I take you out sometime?" If she says no then WHATEVER, wait till there's someone else you like and do the same thing.
Sorry, lots of advice!
2007-02-11 06:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by misadventure 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's attractive... I mean... I'd do anything short of illegalness for a guy like that. Seriously. I'll run through the mall screaming the Batman theme song through an amplifier for that matter.
But most chicks don't. *shrugs* they either want doormats, or macho jerks. *shakes head*
It takes a while to find a girl who will appreciate those characteristics... but don't give up. They're out there. They're just as rare as a guy like you.
2007-02-11 14:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Dragon Rider ™ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl. I would definitely find that attractive! If you want a girl to find you attractive, look for a girl who is very much the same way: ladylike, intelligent, innocent, sweet, romantic, and optimistic.
2007-02-11 14:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by bisous148 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attractive! I have a soft spot for sweet guys.
2007-02-11 14:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by ANIMAL LUVER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love them!
because of my work I meet lots of arrogant footballers and city boys they're all awful.
Give me a lovely geek anyday.
Well, not right now as I have my own.
Geeks rule.
2007-02-11 14:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by some girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
V V attractive!! Are you the "innocent" guy? If so, don't be afraid to get in touch!
2007-02-11 14:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by astrokitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ill be honest, i would probably go for someone like that. as long as he is a sweet and genuine guy i would talk to him. but he's got to have a sense of humor and make me laugh. and you're intelligent, which is good. so yea its all good.
2007-02-11 13:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, that is the perfect guy! I love that kind of guy! Just give him some cute looks and I will marry himmm!
2007-02-11 14:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by mlissers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attractive? That guy wont be single for a full minute in his life!
2007-02-11 14:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Staf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very attractive and sweet.
2007-02-11 13:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋