What should i do? okay i have this guy friend i don't know if he likes me or if i like him but i constantly try to flirt with him but it seems to not answer anything.....i think he likes me so i flirt to see if he likes me so far nada!!! i've heard rumors that we should be going out what do i do?
2007-02-11 05:33:02 · 9 answers · asked by person who cares 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is if i ask him i know he'll dislike that cause last year in school we fought but now we're friends! so he doesn't like talking about liking and love and stuff
2007-02-11 05:37:56 · update #1
Sorry more details people have said that he liked me...but the thing is i don't know if i like him he's not that cute but he is sweet
2007-02-11 05:39:34 · update #2
Well, flirt ALOT wit him!
Here are sum tips:
#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-11 05:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better if you ask him directly. In case if you want to take time then keep flirting but don't keep it too close also as it may hurt one of you later. Best of Luck.
2007-02-11 13:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested. Find someone else to play with. If you keep "flirting" with this guy he may get the impression that you just want to get laid. That's what I'd think.
2007-02-11 13:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its better u find some who likes u to coz there r many sweet 1s out here/there
2007-02-11 13:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts when you break up with someone
love hurts more when someone breaks up with you
love hurts most when the person you love has no idea of ur love
is it true with you....
2007-02-11 13:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll give you mine for 1 day he's handsome ,smart,funny,and he's wd da greatest heart ever...your gonna love him too...if you like da idea gimme your ten points
2007-02-11 13:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop with the firt let him make the move
2007-02-11 13:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by sorayaengland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg tell him that u like him
good luck!
2007-02-11 13:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout asking him...theres a novel idea.
2007-02-11 13:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋