I normally do not answer questions like this. However, as a Physician I feel compelled to say that a first sexual experience should be delayed until you are ready emotionally. Also I just want to remind you that if you do have sex, PLEASE use a condom, always. Take your time and enjoy your youth.
2007-02-11 05:29:41
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answered by E-Razz 4
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It felt like a big monkey had been taken off of my back. I didn't have sex until I was 19, and this wasn't by choice. It was because I was too scared and shy. I didn't think it was cool to be a virgin, and always felt awkward when the subject of sex would come up around my friends.
I lost my virginity to a woman during my sophmore year of college. Of course, I had masterbated many, many times prior to having sex, so the physical sensation of an orgasm was nothing new. But, the warmth, and softness of being with a girl was extremely memorable. That was the best for me.
Probably wasn't a very good experience for Liz (the girl I was with). It didn't last very long. I probably didn't last much more than a minute or so, and at that time, I didn't have a clue as to what to do with my hand.
Don't you love the internet where you expose your little secrets like this?
2007-02-11 13:58:50
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answered by Anonymous
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i don't want to dissapoint you, but in order to tell you the truth you will probably end up dissapointed. the first time sucks for many reasons. it hurts, your already nervous and the pain makes it worse. it depends on your partner exactly how long it will last for and you may even be sore for a day or 2 after sex. yer period will probably be off track unless you are taking birth control and u will be dissapointed that it wasn't all movies make it out to be. sex is messy and really awkward for a while. but don't give up in time it will get much better. a women usually don't reach sexual maturity until 20 to 22 years old. but you will still be able to orgasm but prolly not your 1st, 2nd, 3rd, or even 4th time. but good luck and hope you are sharing this with someone who really cares about you and not some random person.
2007-02-11 13:30:30
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answered by hickgirl4ever 3
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not really
not really
alil once u get started
not long the first time if he is a virgin
its not all the hype its been made out to be. and for those ppl who say it hurts alot and all n that u bleed alot they are liars. it doesnt really hurt at all. and u may stop alil later on. it does make u walk alil funny aftawards the first time and makes ya private feel alil swollen ..but it gets betta the more u do it. just dont make too much of it ..once u do it ..ull be like ..ok that was the big deal? whatever. make sure to always use protection
2007-02-11 13:31:57
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answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7
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Well...to be honest...all of the above and more. It hurts at first but only at first. This is quickly overcome by the greatest pleasure you can imagine. And it feels really, really good. Depending on how excited you are detemines how long its gonna last. Especially for the guys. Its something that you should basically want to give this to someone that is really special. Someone who would basically appriciate what you are giving to them. I think that, that person should be the one in holy matrimony.
2007-02-11 13:50:19
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answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4
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i thought it hurt and i wanted it to be over as soon as possible.it doesnt hurt when you get used to it and start to relax more.dont forget contarception.can last for short or long time especially if you use a lot of foreplay,i remember thinking well thats it i lost my virginity and it was crap and painful.its very good now tho but i have years of doing it under my belt now.maybe have a little bit of alcohol first to relax you cos knowing what i know now i would have been less tense and it probably would have hurt less.
2007-02-11 13:27:36
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answered by Anonymous
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i am guessing you are really young, like maybe 14? don't worry about sex right now and never let anyone pressure you into having it. by the way...... it hurts really bad the first time.
2007-02-11 13:27:07
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answered by Btieti 5
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Extremely painful, especially if it is with someone who is not super special and who loves you enough to be very tender and gentle with you. Don't worry about what it feels like, trust me it will be a very beautiful experience if you are with someone that you love and respect and he or she feels likewise.
2007-02-11 13:28:09
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answered by myleshunt 4
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For the woman it's really painful - lots of blood, cramping, and a sharp, stabing pain in the abdomen.
I'm told it's not as bad as the 3 hours of vomiting afterward. Hopefully, you won't need to be hospitalized, but it's very common.
Seriously, it depends on the woman and the man she's with. It can be very pleasurable or exteremly painful depending on how ready both partners are.
2007-02-11 13:26:23
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answered by Anonymous
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do not worry about the phisical feeling worry about the emotional. is the love there and are you married do not do it cuz every one else is doing it. wiat until you are maried the love and emt0onal is so much better and it si worht the wait. then you body will over flow with pleasure
2007-02-11 13:26:48
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answered by Anonymous
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