One of my girlfiends has decided she knows this perfect girl for our mutal friend. Everytime we go to her house this 'date' is there but my male friend is too shy to say he is not interested in her. He doesn't want to hurt anyones feelings and has asked me to say something? Help!
2007-02-11 04:57:10 · 8 answers · asked by Jo H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your girlfriend that you don't want her to do this cause let me tell you the truth about fixing friends up with friends.... It always ends up bad cause if it doesn't end up working out between them to then it causes problems for you. Your g/f friend will get mad at her, then your g/f gets mad at you cause it's your friend that hurt hers. Your friend will get mad at you cause he really didn't want to do this in the first place but your g/f insisded on it. You see it's going to cause problems for you cause everyone is going to blame you, it isn't fair but that's how life issues are. All you can do is tell your g/f that your friend isn't interested or you can tell her your self that sorry but your friends isn't ready for a g/f. Just lay it down simple and I'm pretty sure she'll understand, but remember in the further don't let your self be put in this postion cause it's hell to get out of in the long hand when things don't work out. good luck!!!
2007-02-11 05:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty,your friend needs to get a backbone and be honest. He needs to tell your friend he's not interested in the girl, but wouldn't mind being friends, how does she know the girl is even interested in him. The problem with people setting other people up on blind dates is they have a one sided agenda, they don't take into consideration the other person's feelings about the situation and what they want. Just because they think two people will make a cute couple doesn't necessarily mean they are compatible for each other.So before your friend is roped into a situation he doesn't want to be in, he needs to speak up,Your not going to be around all the time to speak for him, he needs to be upfront in what he wants or he'll end up with the wrong girl in the future.
2007-02-11 05:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tricky situation - think you're going to have to tell this girl that your mutal friend is not interested in getting into a relationship right now. Once this has been said and all parties are aware of it you will just be able to enjoy being friends and have a laugh together without any pressure.
2007-02-11 05:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Just tell your friend that the person in question is not interested in the "perfect girl". He will find his own "perfect girl" when he is ready to do so. I am sure the girl dosent want to be taken for a ride, and your friend dosent seem to be the type to lead her on, so i am sure the girl would be better knowing the truth.
2007-02-11 05:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by kevina p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that he has met this girl a few times, does not feel anything for her and does not want to be fixed up. Tell her he was very respectful, does not want to hurt anyone's feelings but feels uncomfortable.
2007-02-11 05:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by BLANK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with words tell her why you feel she is wrong if that does not work tell her your friend that he has already told you he is not interested go for it
2007-02-11 05:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by slapjack458 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that he's not interested
2007-02-11 05:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so just tell her he's not interested.
whats the problem?
2007-02-11 05:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋