With both guys and gals earning who do you think should pay for an outing? Personally me and my other deposit an equal amount in a dating account and spend it till empty or replenished. So our outing depends on how much is left in the account which we draw out at ATM and spend accordingly.
2007-02-11 04:54:47 · 16 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If you're just dating and not "going out" as in boyfriend/girlfriend, I would think the person that asked the other person on the date would be the one to pay for it. Or you can split it, like one person pay for the movie ticket, the other pay for the movie snacks. When you're officially dating, you can take turns paying for it. My fiance and I take turns paying for our dates and meals until we live together and have a joint account.
2007-02-11 05:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is not something incorrect about procuring the date. its purely the 2d date so so that you are able to assert" hi i am going to get this one because its our 2d date and also you paid for the first date." in case you comprehend situations are tight then i'd attempt to pay for it yet when quite quite needs to pay there is not something incorrect with that both yet a minimum of you presented the chance make issues a touch a lot less complicated. Plus it makes a guy sense good to carry close that you at the instantaneous are not in basic terms searching ahead to him to purchase each little thing even nonetheless we are prepared to regularly. good success!
2016-11-27 01:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by santore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you invite someone out, you are the host so you pay. In the case of long term relationships, usually two people come to an agreement that works for the both of them the way you and yours have.
2007-02-11 07:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy should ask and the guy should pay. It should be his pleasure to enjoy the company of a nice woman and he makes her feel wanted.Its like he putting his heart in to the date. I think you are cheap and would never date a man who didnt pay 90 percent of the time.How much do you care about this woman?It doesnt matter how much she makes.Your being rude.
2007-02-11 10:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person should pay their own way. However if someone offers to pay and you feel like accepting it, go ahead. You just shouldn't expect that someone else is going to pay, they are people not walking ATMs.
2007-02-11 08:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fair enough, but I think it also depends on how long you have been dating. On mine and my husband's first date (he asked me out) I paid, and I never let him live that down! But hey, we're married so I wasn't after him for money.
I think its romantic to stick to tradition early on in the relationship. Girls should be wooed and guys should make the effort, even if it's just to McD's. Then as the relationship progresses sure it all evens itself out. My husband pays for meals, but I shop for his clothes.
2007-02-11 06:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by cloclo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the two people. They should decide if they are going to split the bill or who is going to pay.
2007-02-11 05:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by Palex Is Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The initiator unless one or the other insists on paying
2007-02-11 04:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by isthisparadise1962 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the ladies want emancipation, then they should also be ready to pay the bill equally.
whether ull split the bill equally each time or whether each pays the bill alternately, thats completely up to u...
cheers
2007-02-11 05:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The initiator.
2007-02-12 07:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by Luv Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋