problem is with my 3 aunts!!! They are really crazy about our own religion!!! and they scold me in front of my cousins! say some nice way to tackle them. I dont want to miss them and at the same time i can never change my ideas!!! pls help me
2007-02-11 04:48:59 · 9 answers · asked by yummy babycorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's good that u believe in ecumenical secularism & ur parents supports u ,that is more important then any one else in this world including ur aunts.if ur parents r with u then u don't need to prove urself to any body .
next time when ur any of those aunt scolds u then politely but firmly make it clear to them that u r not gonna change ur thinking bcoz there is nothing wrong in respecting others sact.i don't know about ur religion but i am sure that whichever it is,it won't teach u to hate others religion.just make this point clear to ur aunts.if this don't satisfy them, then try to be quiet on this topic infront of them if u don't want to lose them.if u want to have an acid test of ur relation with them then make it clear to them that u r not gonna change ur belief & if they really loves u then they have to accept u like this only.
2007-02-11 05:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by SHOBHIT J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, whether he did love you back, you won't be waiting to take the relationship greater, till he extremely did no longer desire to maintain his job(!). actual, looking out a instructor's sexuality is ridiculously puzzling, however between the main suitable strategies on a thank you to get section way there is to ask whether he's married, and if no longer - why no longer, the 1st could be asked publicly, however the 2nd could be privately in any different case there is not any hazard of him liking you back. Giving him a letter is not any doubt one in all the main suitable strategies on a thank you to tell him which you like him because it saves the embarrassment led to to the two one in all you if he's at the instant, it additionally supplies him time to think of over his reaction that something he says would not come out incorrect. you extremely could attempt speaking to him correct, then you definately've a huge gamble to gauge his character and whether you think of you would be good at the same time. even however as you're a youngster are you specific that its love and not a crush or merely hormones? that's probable the biggest question which you will could ask your self at the instant.
2016-10-01 23:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tackle is to take them out at the knees. If you hit them up too high, they make be able to shake you off and keep running. At least with the knees if you miss you can still grab an ankle.
2007-02-11 04:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say, "I'm afraid we'll have to agree to disagree about this." Then smile and change the subject.
Good you you and your parents for being tolerant of all religions. You will go far with an open attitude.
2007-02-11 05:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
justtell them wot is the need of following a religion until u r not a good human being.
one should be a good human being and love everyone equally and adore every creation of god.
it is us who had made these religions.
we r the one who is dividing ppl into caste and creeds.
god doesnot says that to divide and hate ppl on the basis of religion, caste and creed.
all religions says that their is one god.
so just worship him and adore his creations.
wot else u can say religion is???
2007-02-11 07:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by swtchd2new id_gregarious.punjabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain ur aunts about the democracy of india.it says that every1 has the right 2 present their own views. so no one can stop any1!!!
2007-02-11 11:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not learn anything from your aunts.
They are injurious to your health
2007-02-11 04:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would recommend Shobit J's advice
2007-02-11 18:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by grandpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silent with them
2007-02-11 09:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋