Well,actualy it can sounds weird but this is what i have ...This summer i invited my best friend to live with me cause her parents went to some trip,it was great time,We have some friends abroad so we keep in touch with them by icq...One day she told me that she met some nice guy in an icq chat and added him to my icq(cause she didn't have her own),so during two weeks she was talking to him and then she left...Once i opened my icq,and while i was talking to my friends somebody wrote me: "Hey Ash!"i had no idea who it was but then when i answered him i realized it's this guy...don't know why but i started talk to him from her name (my name is Ashy too)..during this time we became really great friends even maybe more,he is so cute...but i can't say him the truth who i am,he still think that i'm she ...he wants to know me in the real life,i really like him...but what should i do?maybe it would be better just not speak with him anymore...delete him from the list..but i still feel guilty
2007-02-11 04:41:55 · 6 answers · asked by morena_shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you need to fess up, and tell the truth, not only because it's the right thing to do, but because it's morally the right thing to do. YOU know in your heart that he thinks you are someone else, and that alone shouldnt make you feel good, knowing that in his mind, he thinks he is talking to your friend, the person he is sappose to be getting to know. AND what kind of person would do that to their friend? Think about it! After all if they both stop talking to you after you tell the truth and apologise, then take it as something you deserve and a lesson learned. How would you feel if someone did that to you? Someone you are sappose to trust.
YOU should have never done it, but now that it's done.. please just do yourself a moral favor and tell the truth. Who knows they might forgive you, and just dont let it happen again. :)
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-11 04:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by MOON13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what happened. If he got to know you over icq, maybe he'll be ok with that. Maybe not. You won't know until you tell him. But it beats just deleting him and never giving him the chance.
2007-02-11 04:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he is ur friend, then you should tell truth to both That guy & ur frend Ash. Because they both are ur friend.
I knw both will forgive u and situation wil be normal.....coz ur frend added his id in UR messenger and she must knw dat u can chat with that guy..........n u did. Just clarify and situation wil bcome normal.
You will really feel good wen u tell then truth.
Best luck.
2007-02-11 04:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she`s accomplished this to you greater beneficial than as quickly as, it`s approximately time to start comparing the huge-unfold of the friendship. in case you`ve been lied to greater beneficial than as quickly as by using the comparable individual, then needless to say that individual isn`t well worth trusting. And no friendship can exist without have confidence. you are able to the two coach her the door, or keep being the doormat.
2016-10-01 23:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him! i did the same thing u did and i told the guy and we still talk to each other everyday..b/c ur personallity wise he likes u he just thinks its ur friends and if u meet him in real life NEVER be alone when u do
2007-02-11 04:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Amy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm tell the computer dude and yo friend and if he dont like you for you then you need to leave him alone. but b4 you keep trying to tak to him you need to ask yo friend whats the deal and get permission dont be trying to steal somebody she talking to behind her back
2007-02-11 04:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋