my former best friend's(he is still a close friend) girlfriend dumoed him, she's into me(signs are obvious) but i don't know if i should go for it, please help!
2007-02-11 04:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by lil dreamer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all hope the real you is attractive. Go for it.
2007-02-11 05:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by gift 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you gotta respect your boy. Guy code states this is dangerous ground to walk on. But if your boy seems cool with the breakup, just be honest and talk it over with him first. Before you say anything, be sure to make it CLEAR that you won't do anything if it upsets him (and be for reall about that!). Be prepared. He's prolly gonna be upset or downright pissed at first. Let him blow off the steam then continue to talk. And DONT get all defensive if he does get pissed. You gotta look at it from his point of view. Then again, you have to find out if there is at least a chance to go for it or you will regret not making any move at all.
2007-02-11 12:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by luckynjoe4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think if you go out with you BEST FRIENDS EX you will be jeprodizing your friendship.As friends there are some lines you just don't cross and that happens to be one of them. Don't go for it. Don't let a chick come in between a great friendship.
2007-02-11 12:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your former best friend and make sure there is no problem if you go after her, since you dont want him as an enemy, then by all means go for it and good luck.
Your welcome.
2007-02-11 12:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Akbar B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. But first maybe ask your best friend if that is alright so he won't feel threaten. Cause it is hard to see ex's again.
2007-02-11 12:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rockgirl10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally i wouldnt go for it well i am a girl but if i was in your position i wouldnt. it was your bf's gf you dont want to hurt your friendship so ask him if its ok?
if he doesnt care go for it, but if hes still hurt about it dont, wait for a bit until he is over her
2007-02-11 12:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by abby_borg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, thats your friends ex. Are you kidding? You should never date your friends exes.
2007-02-11 12:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by lateisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
What's so hard about this? Why do people have to try and be someone they aren't?
2007-02-11 12:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by veolapaul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do whatever you feel like as you are one her hit list too
2007-02-11 12:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it
2007-02-11 12:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋