My boyfriend likes a lot of hair...anyone else experience this?

Question

I started dating a new guy and I absolutely adore him. I am falling head over heels. We are sexually active and very very open about what we like, want, expect, etc. Which I really like because I've found it hard to be and find someone else to be this open about sex. He told me how he likes a woman to look and many aspects are stigmata in society. I don't mind them, but its just odd to me anyways. He wants me to be hairy. And I'm not talking pubes. I am also talking hair on my legs, arms, pits, etc. He asked me if I could help it, never to shave again, lol. Apart from going in public baring my legs and pits, I am ok with it. Does anyone else experience this? How is it? Is there any litature about it? Apparently were is a whole sub-culture of hairy women in porn, but being the pshycoanylist I am, I like to understand the fetish fully.

Answer 1

Well all like different things, some women like hairy men, I don't (not that I would ask a man to shave hair on his body but it does not turn me on). I don't even like facial hair! I had a girl friend who shaved under her arms but never her legs, she said the guys loved it. Hey what ever works. If he likes it and you are happy with it, go for it!!! A lot of European women do not shave.

Answer 2

Some guys do like girls to be hairy. It's a case of liking them to be just enough female to be female, but as little different from male as possible, while still remaining female.

It's not the most common view in the US, but it's very common in Europe where in some areas a girl with a moustache is considered much preferable to one without, on the ground that the girl with a moustache will have a male-type sex drive.

Answer 3

LUCKY! I wish my man wanted me to be hairy! God, I hate shaving. It would be so much more convenient. Oh well, can't really blame him though. It is kinda icky.