Well in my opinion its wrong if you do it married because then whats the point of being married. But in your case you are not emotionally into the marriage so i guess its ok as long as your not hurting someone else who thinks you are his/ her only one. I think friends with benefits can be had without having a serious partner on the side. You obviously care about your children also since you want to be more discreet with the arrangement so i think its ok. I like it that you thought about your children many people don't.... :)
2007-02-11 04:44:23
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answered by xprincezzSicax 2
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Of course. As long as the kids aren't effected. If yu're not ready for a relationship, why not have a little fun with a friend?
2007-02-11 04:37:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I feel that you a grown woman and if thats the arrangement and hes fine with it then do it. Just be honest if it gets serious you need to let the other man know your still legally married.
2007-02-11 04:39:20
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answered by lateisha s 1
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It's okay for the one who ONLY wants the benefits. Your kids shouldn't be involved in your sex life even with their father or anyone else. That's not their business...but it is your business/job to be as discreet as possible because if it gets out in the streets that their mom is acting like a "you-know-what", it will affect/effect them directly.
2007-02-11 04:37:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Being acquaintances with reward sounds quite cool ... no harm as long as thoughts and thoughts are not getting interior the way...good? yet while one developes intimate thoughts in the direction of yet another ... and quite if those intimate thoughts are not a blended attempt or shared via the two, there is ability for "crimes of hobby". So, once you're truly attracted to a minimum of one yet another, get previous the "what would desire to we call our relationship" and nicely known to the two your self and one yet another which you prefer a relationship.
2016-09-28 23:19:15
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answered by emilios 4
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gurl you grown. hell yeah its okay as long as yo kids dont know about it. you need to have a clear understanding between you and this man how far yall can go. rules boundaries etc... as far as you being married if you getting down like that you need to get a divorce asap. life is too short to be tied to something you not happy with
2007-02-11 04:38:35
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answered by peachez 3
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No legally you are still married, which is supposed to be sacred vows. If you want to do it right get it legal and then you can get your freak on.
2007-02-11 04:40:58
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answered by sirjames 3
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i think it is fine, personally. there is nothing wrong with it. just keep in mind that eventually you may really fall for this guy and someone may end up getting hurt. be careful, have fun, and always be safe =).
2007-02-11 04:38:28
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answered by trisha_r_c 3
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i had a friend with "benefit's" for a very long time, but if i was you I would tell my hubby that it was over. If your not happy with your hubby why stay
2007-02-11 04:39:21
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answered by Anonymous
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im sorry for yo daughter but i don't get the rest of the stuff you are talking about, abit vague.
2007-02-11 04:38:38
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answered by jbokande 2
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