Ok, so there's this guy I dated for maybe two years. I found out about some really awful stuff he did, and we broke up. Now we were sort of getting back together. But my friend, who started liking him after I started dating him, keeps trying to steal him. She's always asking if I'm jealous of her and rubbing stuff in my face. She tells my sorta-boyfriend everything I say about him, plus a whole bunch of lies. I'm not sure how he reacts to this, and I don't know why she's doing this. PLEASE HELP ME!
2007-02-11 04:30:12 · 21 answers · asked by LisaM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't need either of them in your life, forget about both!
2007-02-11 04:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to find a man of her own. You been dating this guy for two years thats a long time, and she should realize that you two care for each other and are now trying to work things out. If she continues let her know where you stand and if she doesn't respect that then you should let her go!
2007-02-11 04:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by lateisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing that because she is not a real friend. Just smile and don't show that you are bothered in anyway by the two of them. Just stop telling her things that she does not need to know. She is not to be trusted obviously so you may want to get her out of your life completely.
2007-02-11 04:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should talk to your friend is she is a true friend && you tell her that she needs to stop & move on with someone else guaranteeing that your taken then she will stop however if your boyfriend believes your friend im not going to force you but suggesting that you break up because he should know the type of person you are & if he loved you he would trust YOU
hope that helpsl
2007-02-11 04:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by elka l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man girl she aint no friend so what finde an other one and make her jealous come on who cares shes going to get hurt one day if shes keep on doing that fine an other boy and rub it in her face the same way she didi to you
2007-02-11 04:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seriously sounds like you need a NEW friend. If she was your friend she would be happy for you and your sort-of boyfriend and she would not be trying to take him away from you. She is not your friend, she is underhanded and cruel. Dump your female friend, and fight for your man. Let him know how much you love him and want him, and let him know that you feel uncomfortable with him talking to her, and ask him to please stop talking to her because she is corrupt!!
Good luck and have fun with your sort-of bf. :-)
2007-02-11 04:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly - dont talk about your boyfriend to this so called friend. Then she will have nothing to report back. Secondly call her a jealous cow - and tell her to go away. That should do it.
2007-02-11 04:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a friend is using an ex to make you jealous..theyre not a friend. end of story...worrying about it and trying to 'fix' it is a waste of your time and energy..use this time to find a new friend.
2007-02-11 04:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her about this because if she is that jealous than she is just hating. So take my advice and you can do one of the three things.......1.Find another man.
2.Tell that ***** to back off.
3.Or you can tell your man that he has to pick one of you and it has to be you because she is just playin him.
2007-02-11 04:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they've already been 'doing it' behind your back and she's trying to find the opportune moment to tell you i.e. during an argument
2007-02-11 04:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Truman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend then. Stay away from both of them. You ended your relationship for a reason and she doesn't give two flicks about you.
2007-02-11 04:33:01 · answer #11 · answered by Groovy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋