Perhaps you are married or in a relationship and fell in love with another person.
What was your experience and how did you cope ?
2007-02-11 04:27:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I have been in love with two people at the same time. As a matter of fact, that time is now. How am I coping with it? Not very well. I am a truck driver. The guy, I shall call him "S", is a driver as well. We hooked up and were team for a while. The reason we aren't together, is because we both listened to other people and didn't trust in each other. We now have realized that mistake and have told each other that we still love one another. In the time before we realized our mistake, I met someone else and am now teamed up with them on the truck. Let's call him "L".
Yes, I love them both. I just have to sit back and evaluate my life. Which one would I rather have. I love them both. But, would I rather have steamy sex and a life of I don't know what is going to happen from day to day? Or would I rather have a life that is stable, consistent, and pretty much planned out from day to day?
That is just something that I will have to sit back and think about.
Honey, I can't give you advice on what to do, but at least you know where I am and you can get some ideas of what you need to do from my situation.
Good luck. E-mail me and let me know how it goes.
2007-02-11 04:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kinda, thinking about two/three girls. Still single and still trying to decide.
It is hard to cope and I am trying to see which of the 2/3 I am most compatitable with.
If you are already in a relationship, it wil be hard for you to cope and your partner will find out. In my experience what I have seen is that you are most likely to break up with the person in your current relationship and you will be left with nothing.
I have found very few people managing to make it through and have a new relationship with the other person. But then this happes because the person who likes the other 2 people is comparing between the 2. It is usually the 'better' person who he/she chooses and that person is usually not the person who they are in a relationship with.
What I recommend you do is to stay in your current relationship and forget about the 2nd person who you like
2007-02-11 04:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah surely, even though it turned right into a lengthy time period in the past and there have been 4 those who lived collectively and all slept interior of an same mattress. We were not often ever abode collectively nonetheless so it became purely quite crowded from time to time. i imagine I loved 2 extra on the instantaneous also. some issues are in basic terms too good to remember LoL
2016-11-27 00:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by chapdelaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly you must know that you only think you're in love with #1 or #2
lets say #1 is your girlfriend and #2 the new love. if you are now in love with #2-girl then you weren't completely in love with #1-girl in the 1st place.... if it was that easy to fall for #2 something was wrong with the 1st relationship.....if married to #1 you need to work on the problems that are making you look elswhere before getting involved with #2-girl. don't let #1 hang on by a thread. break it off or fix it before you find yourself becoming what all girls hate.. a cheater
2007-02-11 04:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have loved another and been infatuated. Loved another and liked another but love 2 people no. One always has more love than the other. In terms of coping ... it up to you and the situation of all involved.
2007-02-11 04:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by tredaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i am!
It`s just hard work! keeping secrets ect!
Depends if you want both lots of attention? The 2 i know are completely different people, but i love them in different ways, one is a dreamer and sensitive and romantic,one is fun ,giggly a bit insensitive but she does`NT fly off the handle as she is level headed!
Which one will i always be with???? Don`t know, maybe in 10 years!!!
2007-02-11 05:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by john j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No perhaps you need to sit back and try to know why you have two on the go!reason being if you were happy with 1 you wouldnt need to ask the question to yourself or anybody else for that matter.good luck.
2007-02-11 04:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it was quite stressful. I had a guilty feeling most of the time and i hated myself for doing it. At the end i broke up with both of them.
It's not something nice to do to anyone, cause i sure wont like it or accept it; if my boyfriend did that to me.
2007-02-11 05:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it's very possible to be in a romantic relationship with two different people. In ones heart, there is a favorite.
2007-02-11 04:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married with children, but yes I keep falling in love with somebody else all the time. Its like, my wife is there, but I have no intention of divorsing or anything at all, but I keep falling in love at all the time
2007-02-11 04:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by mamakumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋