he ask me to marry him but he goes on line and tells other girls how hot they are . should i marry him or get out now?
2007-02-11 04:19:34 · 11 answers · asked by Abby G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out now, and send a pic I'll be the judge on how good you look :)
2007-02-11 04:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to continue to drive you crazy or even get worse. My husband never complained about my fluctuating weight until we got married. I have not gotten any bigger than I was when we were dating, my weight always fluctuates about 20 pounds. I work out and run sometimes, sometimes, I don't! I am tall and the extra weight never bothered me but now I am a Weight Watchers member and although I am a strong person, I have cried too many tears because of his nagging about wanting me to be as skinny as I was when we met. (I was super fit but I was also doing a lot of spiritual fasting.) Does the online flirting make you jealous? If it doesn't bother you, then you may be able to hang in there. If it does, then you probably could score better in the emotional compatibility area. If your love for him coupled with the wonderful way he USUALLY makes you feel strongly outweigh this feeling, then go for it. Everyone has problems, but you have got to pick your battles. This is a hurtful one, so choose wisely. You don't want to have to feel hurt all your life. Best wishes to you!
2007-02-11 12:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i'm sure you're a beautiful woman. don't marry him...he's obviously a shallow jerk beneath it all. if he's going to treat you like that now, how do you think he would treat you once you've tied the knot? probably not much better. things don't change once you're married...if there's something that bothers you about him now, it'll always bother you. and trust me...he WON'T change...
it's NOT worth it. if you have any doubts, whatsoever, there's a good chance you'll regret it later. save your time and find a real man who makes you feel like a princess - its what you deserve.
there's plenty of other guys just waiting to find a girl like you. good luck!
2007-02-11 13:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by hmm. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now while you can and there aren't any loose ends to get tangled up if he goes online and tells girls that they are hot either he is losing interest in you or he can't be happy with one woman either way he is not good for you
2007-02-11 12:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, your boyfriend makes you concentrate on negative things. Your concentrating on this issue will lead to one thing...You will get fat. Whatever you concentrate on is going to happen.
As far as marriage. Thats up to you.
2007-02-11 12:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by tredaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should get away from him asap. if he luvs u he shouldn't be saying that! that is very mean and i think u should give him a piece of ur mind to that boy!!! god luck ans=d i hope u live a happy life without him!!!!
2007-02-11 12:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by pammypiano56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Average? You probably are fat. Leave him anyways though. That will tell him since you are fat and being left by a fat woman probably hurts.
2007-02-11 12:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he is still looking around then why marry him..he's not ready.
2007-02-11 12:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put rules down. he don't like them, get out!
2007-02-11 12:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by :kjelseth: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the jerk NOW!!!
2007-02-11 12:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋