so even if my mother doesnt talk to me much, and she never picks me up for a weekend but she picks up my brother instead of me, does she still love me
2007-02-11 04:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by Chris S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More than likely.
Make a date with her, while you're out, have a heart to heart talk about your feelings. Hopefully this'll help her to realize the impression she's been giving, or you'll realize where her head is at...
2007-02-11 04:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she loves you, but there is NO excuse for her seeing your brother and not you. DO NOT let this lead YOU to believing that you are unlovable. Hon, it is YOUR mother who is SICK, NOT YOU! There is nothing wrong with YOU. But, I would ask someone that I trusted to talk to my mom FOR me, you know...to "feel her out on the subject". Have them point out to her that this is hurtful to you. If she has one ounce of kindness in her, then she will see the error of her ways, and come to you and apologize. If she doesn't, then perhaps YOU should try to forget about her. I know we all want our mother's love, but some mother's are too sick or evil, and they only damage us our whole lives because THEY are damaged. Do NOT allow her to damage YOU.
What does your dad say about this? What about Grandma? You should talk to them about it. If they won't listen, then go to someone you KNOW cares for you, and talk to them. Last but not least, ask HER why she doesn't take you for a weekend. Tell her that you would really like to spend a weekend with her, and see what she says about that. But, be prepared. IF she is a mental case, then you may get your feelings hurt. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-11 04:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 1% mother dont love thier children dont think that your mom dont love you.maybe ur older than your brother. and u can go along home alone how old are you? she love you talk to your mom say and ask her why u dont talk to me much i also need mom to talk to and share with my notes in the school or what ever..
2007-02-11 04:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure she loves you.You need to tell your mom about the feelings your having.she needs to be the one too clear this all up.Make her own your pain.
2007-02-11 04:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she does. are you on punishment? did you do something so that you cant join in the festivities when she picks up your brother??
2007-02-11 04:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, maybe you two need to talk, open up to her and tell her how you feel.
2007-02-11 04:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's awful! have you asked her why she is treating you so badly? I'm sure she loves you but she sure isn't showing it very well!
2007-02-11 04:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really
2007-02-11 04:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by mwaks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ASKED THIS GODDAMN QUESTION ALREADY!! INSTEAD OF ASKING US, ASK YOUR DAMN MOTHER!
2007-02-11 04:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋