I'm in a difficult living situation.Well, I moved in with a friend of mine who rented out one of his rooms to me.Our history has been that he has always pursued me.He gave me money, even when i refused, he has lent me cars when my car was broke down, he even gave my mother money, but I would tell him straight up I am not intrested in you..but he would just say I will wait for you..so recently things have gotten sort of hectice..he's been complaining about everything, from me parking my car into his driveway, to leaving a knife in the kitchen sink..so yesterday he calls a meeting with me,..and starts telling me that I am a liar, and he wants the car that I;ve been using back, and he wants the money that he's gave me back, and that if I live here that he wants me to wear a hat, beacause my hair gets on the floor,...and I told him I 'll just move out and he got all in my face...it was crazy..I never seen that side of him, and I think this is all due to the fact that a guy called for me on
2007-02-11 04:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's probably upset that you are interested in other guys, but not him, and that might have been an overreaction from him, but you might want to leave...
2007-02-11 04:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move out right away! Do it while he's at work if it's easier. He obviously thought that if you moved in with him, nature would take it's course and he could have you.
As for the money, I don't think this way often, but you shouldn't give that guy a single penny back. It was a gift, not a loan. There's no proof of a loan, so it will hold up even if he sues you.
The guy also sounds a bit obsessive-compulsive. My good friend is like that, but I didn't know that until we moved in together, years ago. And he wonders why I won't get a place with him again.
2007-02-11 12:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psycho. There, I said it.
Leave and don't turn around. Run don't walk to the nearest exit. This is not good. At all. Just leave. Give him what is his and leave. Tell him to never call you again and if he does ignore it. Don't leave a forwarding address.
2007-02-11 12:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you brought all of it on yourself. you just said you never told him straight up you didnt want him. men usually dont do **** like that w/o wanting something back. as far as the money and everything goes if you wanna be nice and get things settled you need to give everything back. cause if you dont give him his money back and stuff it will be even more drama. you need to apoligize because it basically led him on. women like you make it hard for the good girls because when we meet guys like that they dont trust us :( :( shame on you
2007-02-11 12:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never met a nice Aries! I say keep house .. Get rid of all roommates.
2007-02-11 12:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what you need to do and he does too, that is why he is freaking out. His money is his control over you.
2007-02-11 12:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him that "if ur going to act like that just because i wouldn't go on a date with u doesn't mean u can act like that!" and then say that "you can't everything u want " and then walk away. that's wat my mom did to me! except the part of dating. anyway tell him straight! i hope he learns a lesson!!!!! good luck!!!
2007-02-11 12:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by pammypiano56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try and move out, or else just stay in your room away from him
2007-02-11 12:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by piggylover_850 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋