I feel so down :( Talk to me.?
My dad left my family a while back now, im 17 and i have an older boyfriend, weve now been together about 9 months nearly 10. I love him to pieces no matter about age or whatever, my dad hasnt been there for me at all, and especially when i went through a really bad patch last year when i wasn't myself, i had such low self esteem, i didnt care what i did, and who i did it with basically. Then my boyfriend, Mark, pulled me out of it all, which is more than i can say for my father. My dad HATES! my boyfriend, but what right does he have? Dad didn't care when i was being punched around by my last boyfriend, or many other things, believe me!!...so why should he have a say? i don't no what to do :( Please talk to me. I'm Jem, i'm 17, my boyfriend is mark and he is 36. :S :( I know the age is a major issue, but i love him. x Opinions please. Lots? xx
2007-02-11 04:11:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is a real man and he really loved you (Mark) he should wait until you are of age. In my opinion he's not a real man and you dad sees that. Why would you want to be with someone who has already had a chance to live their life. Its not fair to you. Honey we all go through low periods of our life, Mark didn't pull you out you pulled yourself out of that period. Recognize you hold the key to your own destiny. God probably just sent Mark there as a reminder, not for you to spend your life with him. How about you set more positive goals for yourself like attending college or building a career rather than trying to find a man. It is more self fulfilling and will allow your life to come together all on its own. Good luck to you.
2007-02-11 04:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by TILAC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you sound like you needed a father figure in your life when all of this was going on.and you found him when you met your b/f im not saying you dont love him just make sure you love him in the way you think.your young and it seems like you really needed your dad and he failed to be there for you.im happy that your b/f was there for you when no one else was but if he loves you the way you think u love him he will back off and let you be the kid,teen youstill are yes age is just a number but your still under age and hes old enough to be your dad.well i wish you all the luck. kinsely28@yahoo.com
2007-02-11 04:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark is a loser. Really. He's a grown man, and he's probably married. What would he gain from a girl??? ~ Your dad shouldn't be part of the issue ~ this is about you.
2007-02-11 04:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!!! 17 and 36!?! Well I guess if you really love him and you know he will not hurt you in any way,then I guess its okay! Your father needs to mind his own business,he shouldnt get to pick who your boyfriend is! Its your life! Good luck! =D
2007-02-11 04:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Unknown. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about the age difference, just try and talk to your dad get point out what he has done to you, and how he's hurt you more than anything....
2007-02-11 04:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your older male friend should be careful since you are underage.
2007-02-11 04:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋