Isn't it unfair that some guys get their way with every girl in the world while others can't get any?

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to like them?

And the ones who get all the girls in the world know that they can hop from girl to girl, so they don't treat their "girlfriend of the moment" right and then the girl wonders why "there are no good men left" when she dates dirtbags while shunning good guys.

"Who ever told you that life was going to be fair?"

Why isn't life unfair for the people who DESERVE bad things to happen to them, i.e. people who treat their girlfriends like s.h.i.t. and get away with it?

More proof that Satan is winning his war over God.

tredaze, how do you know that they asked for it? I've seen girls start talking to ramdom guys, flirting with them, etc. The same girls who would make it KNOWN that they are not interested in me.

JohnnyMusic, when you find that small, molecular area, let me know. :D

Answer 1

It's a syndrome. Some women will date a guys who treat them badly when there is a prince charming like you just waiting to be discovered. But there are plenty of women out there who have self respect and value a man's character above all else, and perhaps you are overlooking them in the same way you feel like you are being overlooked!

Answer 2

OK, so you're hating on me?...I think I will answer this question. There is no way that you will be successful with women because of your attitude. Women want a guy that isn't average. Average guys are shy, clingy, don't have a life outside of their love interest, are too serious, not funny, and don't know how to create attraction. Women will always be attracted to the "bad boy" because they can't help it. That's how they are hard wired. Women talk all the time about why they keep meeting the same kind of man--they can't help it! Let me change your life young man. Here's how you attract women (there are no lines to learn) first you have to adopt an attitude that "you" are the catch. You really have to believe that you could do without whatever woman that you want. When you feel that way, it takes away all of the nervousness, it makes you attractive, and you're free to make fun of her and get her laughing. Never answer a question that she asks you directly. This will further intrigue her. Here is the secret to women and I'm going to give it to you for free: "Act just like women." If a woman likes a guy she sends him mixed signals. She's hot and cold and it drives guys up the wall. Women play hard to get. You need to do that too. Women make themselves unavailable. You need to do that too. Women want what they can't have and what is intriguing to them point blank. So don't hate on me...learn your trade.

Answer 3

No its not unfair. The guys who get all the girls ask for it so they receive. I bet you have been one of those "nice, shunned guys". Listen, you seem to concentrate and are passionate about this unfairness and that is why it happends to you. Change your way of thinking. Dont worry about these guys. Think, ask, and feel good about being a great guy and ask to meet a fantastic girl that is going to love and be there for you. Really believe it and put the same passion into this belief and the universe will attract the girl for you. Everything always works out as long as you concentrate on the right things.
It will all work out just believe it will.

Answer 4

I know exactly what you mean. I'll would be @ work and see someone I like and I would go up and talk to her with respect and dignityand she would just talk to me in the " friend" tone and then some "thug-up" cat comes up to her w/ a "shawty what it iz" and all you hear is giggles and she just blushing. It is based on maturity. Some girls, it takes a while to realize a good man; ex: having a baby and abusive relationship; some girls, never learn and it affects generations and generations. But in a small, small, molecular area, you have women who knows a good man, wants a good man, and needs a good man and it's not about age but maturity. Look for maturity in your conversations; if she is talking being w/ thugs and rims and her nails did and hair done constantly - maturity low - RUN!! But if she is talking about goals and working towards her goals and is willing to do for YOU (knowing what good man do); keep her because there is no better in the world!!

Answer 5

Baby, my momma had a little phrase that sums this up for you..

"Who ever told you that life was going to be fair?"
Her other phrase was "The faster you learn that life isn't fair, the better off you will be."

GIrls are fickle, guys are stupid. The whole mating ritual is ridiculous. I am 38 years old and to this day I am still always attracted to the worst person for me. I know better but knowing and doing are two seperate things. Good luck the right girls will come along and recognize what she has eventually.

Answer 6

what those guys have that you don't is confidence. you call them dirtbags because they seemingly take and throw away what you'd give anything in the world for... but in reality, you just want what they have. even if it is one opportunity to show a girl who you are. but chemistry and compatibility play a big role in whether two people stay together. it's very possible to incite a strong physical connection with someone and later realize that it's not going to work in any other way.

Answer 7

true and then there's some girls who get their way with guys

Answer 8

Those guys are lying.

Answer 9

may be u r gay