Okay, so a gorgeous guy asked me out and I haven't given him an answer. Why? Because I'm 13 years older than he is (and he knows it). He's 19...I kind of feel like maybe I'd be saddling him with an old lady if I went out with him. Personally, I don't think age is all that big of a deal, but I still hesitate on this big of a difference. Serious answers please!
2007-02-11 04:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by BarbieGurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's 19 and i'm 32. (I said 13 years OLDER....not 13 years old!) sorry!!!!! :)
2007-02-11 04:21:38 · update #1
apparently people are not reading your question. You are 32 and HE is 19!
OK. I am 32 and have been asked out a few times by guys in their early-mid 20's. No matter how HOT they are, i just couldn't do it. Why? I guess I just felt they were not mature enough. Of course there are always exceptions...but I have yet to meet one. What would you have in common with him other than physical attraction? He is still a kid. Unless you are immature yourself and you have tons in common, you should keep a 5 year gap +/- at maximum.
2007-02-11 06:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by sandibum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hhhhhhmmmm.... Why did he ask u out? he is 19, why would he want to date any 13 year old. I have seen some of my friends date older guys about 4-5 years difference but they are older around 15-16 also they were very good friends with the guys they dated first. At all points in time her mother new were and who she was with. Do not lie like a child and you won't be treated like one. Also with all the guys she dated she never had sex with any one of them she made that clear from the beginning that she would NOT sleep with them. I don’t know this guy but I suggest that if you are not sure if you should date him then don’t you should be 100% sure or other wise don’t get into that mess, don’t even try it for one date. Hope that helps. Good luck. Remember there are always other fish in the sea.
2007-02-11 04:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 07:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!!!
He asked you out on a date, he didn't propose marriage, so why do you think you would be "saddling him with an old lady?"
Pro-
you say he's gorgeous
you say you don't think age is a big deal
most men your age look like cr@p, and will continue to get worse
Con -
you're afraid what others will think of you, true, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. Trust me, they are just envious.
2007-02-11 04:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Icky Vicky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh heavens no, do not go out with this creep. You are way to young for him and the only thing he is after is sex dear. If you must date, date a boy close to your age only. Personally, i think you should tell your parents about this guy. He is not right in the mind.
2007-02-11 04:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age matters when ur UNDERAGE..... if ur 18+ then age doesnt matter.. you can date someone 24 years older then you... but for now... age does matter... if you do go out with him... he will just go to jail... do you really want to send a gorgeous guy to jail to get molested in there... and used..... just say u like him, but ur too young and u dont want to see him hurt.....
2007-02-11 04:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
age does matter to you. If it didn't you would of went out with him.
I know that age does matter. I dated a girl when she was 22 and she was too childish. She thought life was all fun and games. I know better than that.
2007-02-11 04:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a seriously big difference. idk, ur kind of young to b dating sum1 that old. age doesnt really matter, but u'll probably just get hurt. if u were older.... like 20ish then u would know how to take care of urself, and not get used by this way older guy. so basically, age doesnt really matter.... if its at the right time.......
2007-02-11 04:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 or so (I'm 48 now), I dated a woman who was 38. We eventually parted ways, but, I remember her from time to time with great fondness. We were really good friends and appreciated one another. Age does not really matter if you are sincere in your feelings for him, and, his, for you!
2007-02-11 04:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your just asking for trouble! he can be put in jail for that, and have to register as a sex offender if you get too involved with him, do you really want to ruin someones life?
2007-02-11 04:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋