I am in my early 20’s and I haven’t started dating yet. But I really like this girl and I would like to ask her out, but if she say’s yes I don’t know what to do. Am I supposed to talk about myself or am I supposed to listen to her? What sort of questions can I ask her? Do I ask her about her past relationships, or is that a no, no? Should I tell her that I wish to abstain from sex till marriage, that I’m still a virgin? Or should I save all that serious stuff for later? Where do I take her on a first date? Should it be something that sweeps her off her feet or something casual?
2007-02-11 03:55:20 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best to do:(i did it and it worked) go for dinner... bring a rose to offer her. don't say anything about you like her. make lots of compliment, like ' you have beautiful eyes, i like your smile etc... depending upon how she is. don't take too much about you. talk more about her. what she does, about her family, her future plans, her like and dislike, her hobbies etc.. anything but make sure you elaborate on each issue to make the conversation going with humour and nice atmospere... keep smiling...
keep her smiling as well. don't talk about sex. it's a big mistake. nor about you being virgin or marriage. try being playful by touching her hand while talking. caressing her fingers etc... by saying you're so sweet. at the end when you'll leave her say something like ' i really like being with you, you're the cutest girl in the worls, you're so sweet etc... and fix another date by saying... hey sweetheart, when will i meet u again? then try to opr somrthing like going to cinema, park, zoo or anything by ending to have dinner together...
then tell her you like her(not love). after this reaction...ENJOY. the world is yours... Good luck mate..
2007-02-11 04:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER talk about past relationships on the first date. Don't get too deep in personal conversation. Be fun, don't be too serious.
Maybe she's been on dates before and can carry a conversation.
Where do you want to take her on date?
2007-02-11 12:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out on a date shouldn't be like a job interview.
Forget all the crap about how to act and what to say, go somewhere fun and concentrate on enjoying yourself.
And yes, leave the serious, "I'm a virgin!" stuff for another time.
2007-02-11 12:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and be yourself......make her feel special, pamper her, turn off your mobile phone, (nothing worse when your on a date) make sure you get her home safely.....then if you liked the date then call her again and date her again, DON'T ask her about past dates/relationships and DON'T go into one about ex's...just tell her about yourself, and ask her about herself, talk about your hobbies and fave things, but make her the centre of the conversation, show some interest...a nice bunch of flowers will impress her too....enjoy yourself...oh...DON'T tell her your still a virgin or talk about sex, she may think your after your wicked way....that stuff comes later in a relationship...just be you....take her for a meal or to the cinema, or maybe for a few drinks somewhere, you'll be fine...just relax and go with the flow
2007-02-11 12:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take turns talking and listening but don't get nervous and talk very fast. Don't get too serious too soon,as for the rest, it will be up to you two in the future.
P.S. If she asks you about past relationships then it would be okay to ask her.
2007-02-11 12:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Take her to a dinner where atmosphere is quiet.
2) Ask her about her hobbies/interests.
3) Keep the date short.
2007-02-11 12:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too serious on a first date. Talk about youself a little, but also ask her about herself. The conversations should be equal between you and her talking. You probably shouldn't ask about past relationships unless it comes up, and you probably shouldn't talk about all the serious stuff unless she brings it up. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-11 12:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy yourselves. Just be yourself and have fun. Keep the sex and virgin stuff out of it for now.
Have a great time and good luck.
2007-02-11 12:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to try and be yourself dude its nerve rakin i know but try not to talk about yourself too much make good eye contact smile alot and just have a laugh. girls like blokes who can make them laugh. never and i mean ever look down her top as hard as it may be she will hate it. but honestly it aint that bad just be yourself and dont force her to like you. take her somewhere busy but not loud and just have fun.
2007-02-11 12:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by richard w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should listen to her show her you like to understand her but also do talk about urself as she will also be inqusitive im sure once you both start talking it will be fine good luck
2007-02-11 12:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋