LOL I keep running into him?

Question

Does that mean anything?

I went out with him once or twice 7 years ago. It didn't go anywhere. Had attraction to each other since forever. He's the only guy I feel "nervous" or "self conscious" around. We're the same age, we're both go-getters, in the same business (entertainment), we're both single, both live alone. It's interesting, lately I've been running into him unexpectedly. We both give off the same smiles when we see each other, we both check each other out but he never calls me, never tries to go out with me & it seems like I'm not even on his mind. But when we run into each other .... the attraction is really strong. I think he's so handsome, I blush EVERYTIME I am around him. And he thinks I'm SO SEXY. Does any of this mean anything? Or is it just me wishful thinking?

Answer 1

Sounds like you two have the hots for each other and maybe he's waiting for you to make the first move!! You should try to see if he wants to hang out sometime and see how he reacts. If it's positive..then you know he's diggin you. If it isn't..then you know whats up!! Take a chance..

Answer 2

I think what you are feeling is physical attraction that is unresolved. If you did not sleep with him 7 years ago when you went out a couple of times, then you both may just be feeling that twinge of "wonder what it would be like to...." then if you followed up on a physical relationship the nerves would go away. If you did sleep with him, then you may just be feeling awkward when you see him and he may be smiling because he's having fond memories. If he hasn't tried to reconnect after seeing you, then he probably is not interested or is involved. But...you will never know for sure unless you ask. So if you really want to know, put yourself out there and ask him out for dinner or something simple. Enjoy the butterflies and good luck!

Answer 3

If I were you, next time I ran into him, I'd ask him if he'd like to grab some lunch or something. Like, keep it casual. Maybe say something like, "Haha, hey. Wow, we seem to be running into each other a lot. Would you maybe like to come to lunch? Catch up...get it out of our systems." And chuckle throughout. When you finally get him to lunch, act like the dating thing 7 years back had never happened. Then at the end, if the lunch went well and you seem interested again, tell him how you feel. The lunch should tell you if there is still chemistry between the two of you.

Answer 4

Well, when you say you keep running into him "unexpectedly" it's probably not a coincidence. By the sounds of it, there is some mutual attraction. There's probably a good chance he does like you, but maybe he's afraid to come out and say it?

Answer 5

I realized life is to short to sit around wondering "what if". Just ask him out for coffee and see where it goes from there. 7 years ago was a long time ago, but just go for it.

Answer 6

It very well could be a mutual attraction. You just never know what is going on in his world that may keep him from asking you out. So if it's meant to happen it will. Just sit tight and be patient. Keep on with your life and if he ask you out great if not, no biggie.

Answer 7

It sounds like it is fate. God is pushing you to together and yet you don't respond. I think you guys are soul mates, some people don't believe in that but I do. I would talk to him, go out with him and spend some time together. See if he likes you as much as you like him.

Answer 8

If he finds you sexy and is really into you, he'd ask you out.
So yes maybe it is just your wishful thinking.

Answer 9

It's been 7 years, maybe you guys are havin' an "itch" !!
Ask him out, check out the chemistry then!

Answer 10

approach him about going out sometime or even make an arrangment to meet for coffee. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site