so, here's the story: I like this guy, and he flirts with me ALL THE TIME! my friend told him how i felt (she wasn't supposed to!) and it turns out he doesn't like me. BUT, he still flirts with me, except he's the one who starts it now, not me. And he got mad when i didn't walk with him the day after my friend told him how i felt (it was awkward.. i had just gotten rejected!). So... now its like it was before.. except one again... he always starts the flirting first!!! OH.. AND I STILL LIKE HIM!
My question is, now what should i do?!
And... i don't really know if he flirts with other girls... because he doesn't around me.. but maybe somewhere else he does.
AND TRUST ME... ITS FLIRTING. i know what flirting is!
2007-02-11 03:49:44 · 11 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He says he doesn't like you, yet he keeps flirting with you? He's sending mixed signals and you are acting like a door mat. The next time he starts this behavior, walk away, let him know that you don't appreciate being played for a sucker. He may be sending mixed signals, but you can sure send some very clear ones!
2007-02-11 03:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people flirt for fun, even if they have no intentions on taking a relationship to a new level. In your case, however, it seems confusing. He flat out told your friend he wasn't romantically interested in you, however he wants to keep flirting and wanted you to walk with him... for what? I wonder. Perhaps he does like you and was embarrased to admit it. Also, it is possible that he just wants the attention and he probably does flirt with other girls as well, if this is the case. Perhaps if you find a way to talk to him and ask him what's in his agenda (in a polite way, ofcourse) the next time he gives you a hint that he wants to spend some time with you, either on a walk or just to talk. Take advantage of that opportunity and find out if his flirting with you is just casual or if he has something in mind, like to persue a relationship with you. Be gutsy... sweet, but gutsy and ask.
2007-02-11 04:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Faith . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds as if he really does like you. Do you know for sure that he really doesn't like you? Or for sure that your friend really told him? A lot of games are played when it comes to this sort of thing. The only way to find out is to talk with him. You don't have to come right out and say "Hey, do you like me?" Just go up to him and say "What's up?" and start a conversation. You should be able to figure out if he likes you whether he comes right out and says so or not after awhile. After you get to know him a little better, then I'd ask him straight out if he told someone he didn't like you.
2007-02-11 03:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you... guys are so confusing... you can either set him straight and tell him to stop flirting with you if he doesn't like you... or keep flirting with him, because you never know!
2007-02-11 03:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out if you like him so much and all the flirting is going on. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site
2007-02-11 03:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on flirting with him and other guys. Fittest survive.
2007-02-11 03:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he rejected you why mess with him. he probably has a game going with his on how stupid he can get you to look and laughing at you the whole time. im sure u r better than than go find someone who will appreciate your affections...
2007-02-11 03:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please listen to me: I know for a fact this clown is playing games. do you want a boy who will distract you from your goals? And for what? He's not going to be any good. Look for a guy who's not a game player. I don't care how cute he is.
2007-02-11 03:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you, but didn't want to tell your friend. If his best friend came up and asked if you liked him, would you tell him the truth?
2007-02-11 03:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Laura<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with another guy in front of him.if he reacts...he likes you
2007-02-11 03:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋