My bf is in our home country but i recently left for london to further my career. we do communicate and all but an suddenly attracted to my cousin (a bit distant). he is nice n handsome and also attracted to me (living with him and our aunt)... i dont know what to do. whenenver he's away i miss him so much, he misses me too as he keeps clling. i see us doing the un thinkable... i dont want to feel foolish after kissing or something but at the same time we cant resist, we cant fight it,,, pliz help...i know i wont rest till we kiss or something..
i love my dude n miss him alot... after much thot, i realised i feel this way about my cousin coz he reminds me of him... am confused n never been in such a mess before.
(only serious answers pliz)
2007-02-11 03:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all..your ranting about can't resisting is a lie. You CAN resist and if you truely loved your guy and you really cared about yourself..you wouldn't let yourself or this matter go any further. You've already realized that this is happening because your cousin reminds you of your man. STOP RIGHT THERE and go visit your man.. It's your freakin cousin!! what are you thinking!!
2007-02-11 03:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by ktopping23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd react to my confusion with much thought before acting! You sound like you probably know that reacting on your feelings for your cousin will only bring more problems. You've already figured out that your attraction to him is triggered by you missing your far away love which is all the more reason not to follow your urge to go further. THINK about all the consequences before you make a decision and if it's worth it to you to put yourself through it.
2007-02-11 04:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by mickeymel9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. EWWW its your cousin...that is so wrong on so many levels.
2. Long distance is hard and keeping a relationship going will be difficult. But if you really want your relationship with your bf to last you have to find ways to communicate or find ways to keep the relationship alive. It may be expensive but find ways to visit each other, talk online, on the phone, mail, email...the list goes on. Take your mind off your cousin and think about if your bf and you will be able to last with this separation or if you really want it to last.
3. It is normal to be attracted to another man when you are so far away from the one you love but don't act on those feelings otherwise you will lose your man forever!
2007-02-11 03:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how distant is ure cousin? its prolly because he reminds u of ure guy at home. if he means alot to u and u dont want to loose him then dont do n e thing with ure cousin.
2007-02-11 03:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by ferrari76x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR COUSIN???? AM I READING THIS RIGHT?? GIRL OK IS THIS YOUR FIRST COUSIN? SON OF ONE YOUR AUNTS WHOS IS YOUR MOM OR DAD SISTER?? THAT IS A NO NO NO NO...... MAYBE THIS IS NOT A GOOD IDEA.. IN THE UNITED STATES THIS IS INSEST IS JUST NOT ACEPTABLE.. HOW EVER YOU HAVE THIS FEELING I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT BUT MY ADVICE IS NOT TO ACT ON THEM.. YOU WILL GET OVER IT. TELL YOUR MAN HE NEEDS TO COME TO YOU... GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-11 03:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shud jus have him com live w/u. I don't know what else to say, but I have a question. did u get my email a few min. ago?
2007-02-11 04:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Chica-Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with your cousin is incestuous.
2007-02-11 03:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋