I have fallen in love with my best friend and I do not know what to do. She has a boyfriend however i know that i love her a million times more. I'm in so much love with her i know that she is the one and i want to spend the rest of my life with her. Every minute of every day she is on my mind 24/7. However Now it is starting to get to me and im feeling jealous because he has the person who i want. I Know that my dream will come true somewhen but when is the question. How do I tell her that im in Love with her.
2007-02-11 03:34:27 · 23 answers · asked by MarcyMarc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since it been bothering you, you should tell her. Let if off your chest and then see what happens. If she doesn't feel the same way then there other girls who would appreciate you. Stop hurting yourself with thoughts of jealously and take action.
2007-02-11 03:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you've found yourself in quite a bind here. I've seen this happen many times, where a girl and a guy are best friends and the guy develops feelings for the girl. Don't mean to be a downer but she's likely not to feel the same about you and probably only sees you as a brother. If you want to risk your friendsip you can tell her but if she doesn't return the feelings your friendship will go through an akward stage which it may never recover from as she will try extra hard not to send you the wrong signals and so may not behave the same around you as before. I f you do really really want her, the best thing is to back off from her for about 3 months (still remain friends) and then reappear in her life with a different approach. And it doesn't matter if you would love her more, she feels a sense of attraction to this dude that she's with that she doesn't have for you (yet). However that can change but so would your approach. Plus you CANNOT be thinking about that much as girls don't like wimps and that is a display of wimpy behaviour (no offense). So man up and most importantly show her that OTHER girls find you interesting and attractive as no girl wants a man that nobody else wants and even so, she would probably take you for granted, so flirt in front of her with others etc. Good luck man!
2007-02-11 04:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Xav T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if this is love or it's getting into an obsession. If she's your best friend maybe she considers you as being a friends and can't get to see you other way. You might make her feel very uncomfortable by telling her all this, just look for signals that she likes you in the same way. If not, sorry there are many other girls.
2007-02-11 03:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon you said it your self.. SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND... i can imagine bestfriends tell each other everything so you need to come clean with her and talk about your feelings... but the real question here is who she loves if she has a boyfriend my guess is that she is in love with him.. and maybe you need to accept that and let it be.. if you tell her she knows and if someday she and her boyfriend break up she will see something else in you other than a friend.. but for right now FRIEND is your place and you should be a friend and tell her the truth and accept her relationship and respect it... good luck.
2007-02-11 03:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd wait until the time is right. You don't want to lose the friendship because of your announcement. I know the feelings are deep but she may be single sooner than you expect. If he doesn't love her the way he should, their relationship will end anyway and your window of opportunity will open. Even if that doesn't happen, make sure the time is right. If you think she might feel the same way it may be sooner that later. Even if it doesn't happen, you should try to keep the friendship...she sounds like she is lucky to have one like you.
2007-02-11 03:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by mickeymel9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need space between yourself and your best friend. There are a lot of other chickies out there to worry about one whose taken. She will still be your best friend, you just don't have to hang out with her as often.
Let me tell you:
I had a similar situation, except I wasn't chasing her and her boyfriend was jealous of me. So, we created space and I saw her twice a year, but we remained good friends with an understanding. Now that they broke up, I see her a few times a month. We're just fine and dandy, but it's the nature of the relationship.
2007-02-11 03:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that throughout your friendship you have noticed that you want to be more than friends. Do not insult the boyfriend. She will feel as if you are insulting her choice. Tell her you love her (but dont say that you wanna spend the rest of your life with her, as that will creep her out) and end with, please (her name) be my valentine and give her a bag of candy hearts.
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-11 03:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
again off, you need to or you would lose both one in each and every of them, imagine the way you would experience if it grow to be your boyfriend. go away the guy on my own, there are dissimilar adult men obtainable who're unmarried. you'll harm your pal a lot.
2016-12-04 01:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by barby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little obsessed. You need to tell her how you feel and hope she feels the same way because if she does not your friendship might change. Seeing how obsessed you are I don't she any other option. Good luck!!
2007-02-11 03:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Karmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm. Ok. You may want to back off there sport. How do you KNOW he doesn't love her as much as you do. Find someone else to obsess over for a while and see what happens.
2007-02-11 03:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋