So my dad and step mom are moving to a new house somewhere really soon, even though they had just informed me the DAY before they bought the house.
I have an older brother and sister, but she is in college and my brother is a senior in highschool
On the other hand, my step mom wants me out of her house extrememly bad by the looks of it...and im actually a very good kid
My mom lives in Anacortes. WA. I have visited there about six times, and it seems like a dec. place. Im sort of beginning to like the idea of living with her even though her boyfriend is not very ideal, and he lives in that house.
Im worried about leaving my school . I have a fair amount of friends but only four that would miss me..and im afraid to leave them..very afraid becuase were so close. Its the middle of the volleyball season and im worried i will be behind the other girls in skill. Second semester has begun already too. im very shy at skool and i want to get away from my heartbreak/bad situations
advice??
2007-02-11 03:34:23 · 8 answers · asked by kat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i suggest first planning on finishing out the school year at your current school,,,,, even if your dad and stepmom move, move with them,,,,, then discuss plans with both your dad and your mom, as to where you should live,, you can make a decision by summer,,,,, keep in mind that shyness is something within yourself, that you will most likely outgrow,,,, but the change comes from you,,,,, not from where you live,,,,, best of luck
2007-02-11 03:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Washington state is the place you want to be. There is this little stretch of highway 101 that runs east and west in Washington state and its a Rain shadow of the mountains thus creating a very nice mild temps annually.
I tracked United States weather for 5 years before I deemed the upper peninsula of Wa, state. Second place was mid state Colorado. But their winters got brutal.
Wa has $0.0 in annual income tax. They have perhaps some of the best technological minds with Boeing and such up there. The state has more things to do out doors wise which has a nice mix of mountains, forestry, desert, ocean , lakes, streams and cities. And they do it all with a extremely mild 4 seasons.
Think Port Angeles.
2007-02-11 11:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Maniac Seahorse,
I think that you made some very good points there, about missing Volleyball, ur friends, school, etc., here's my advice;
a) Consider some things; would ur Mom really like you to live with her, or would she not. Would YOU like to live there? If u decide not to, you can always still visit, right?
b) If you really want to live with her, but ur kinda concerned about the boyfriend, try talking to her. Maybe if you really wanted to stay with her, but ur not because of the boyfriend, maybe visit her everyweekend, or stay with her for the whole weekend.
c) I think y ou should also be concerned about missing the rest of the school year. Finish it and get some good material from teachers, so that when you do move, you can give it to whoever you come across in the future!
d) I personally don't think anyone's advice is truly gonna help. My final peice of advice;
FOLLOW UR HEART; DO WHAT IT SAYS, AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU! FOLLOW UR HEART AND YOU'LL DO WHAT IS RIGHT.
I wish you the best of luck!
2007-02-11 11:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyCatLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young, you have your whole life ahead of you. You will meet new friends. Have you tired to talk to your Dad about this situation with your Step Mom? He should be on your side. If that doesn't work out, then the next step is go live with Mom and make the best of it.
2007-02-11 11:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by lindablue8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest talking separately with 1. Your step mom. tell her you don't feel welcome/wanted and want to know what you can do the improve the situation.
2. Your Dad. Also tell him how you feel.
3. You mom. See if living with her is really an option.
4. Your brother and your sister to get their opinions on what is going on in the home.
I do wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-11 11:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a tough decision. Maybe you can move with your family to the new house but come back to visit for the summer and stay with some friends?
2007-02-11 11:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by ktopping23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about finishin school first then move out.
2007-02-11 11:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried about leaving school...but you need to spend more time studying in order to improve your spelling and grammar.
2007-02-11 11:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋