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I am a hypocrite. All my life I put woman that stay in abussive relationships down. And look at me now. I never thought I was that type but here I am. Both my parents are dead now and I live with a man now. A man that says he loves me, but doesn't look me in the eye when he says it. A man, and it was just recently pointed out to me, suggested we get a joint account once he realized I would be getting a big settlement. A man that swears up and down he doesn't drink or play music because that's what his dad did and he associates it with beating your wife and cheating with. A man who says he won't argue, but will tear up his house throw out his glasses smash his phone and makes threatening gestures like throwing off his watch and jacket and raising his fist and pusing and grabbing you as you try to leave. Someone who gets so angry he spits in your face. And here I still am? Why? I have money, no job but I have money. Why do I stay. How do I get out?!! Help!

2007-02-11 03:13:46 · 2 answers · asked by corina381 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

2 answers

NO!! There is never a reason to abuse or to accept abuse.

You need to get out, go to a safe place, friends or shelter. And you need counselling. He needs it as well!! If he is tearing up the place, he is close to tearing up you, you need to get out. That is great that he recognizes some of the issue behind his fathers behavior, but destruction of your home and your items is still controlling and abusive.
Get out before he crosses that line and seriously hurts you. Those are the kinds of guys who never hit her, but killed her!!!

2007-02-11 04:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by White Raven 4 · 0 0

Nope there is no excuse/reason for abuse of ANY KIND.

2007-02-11 06:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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