well as we all now valentines day is approching and i have know this lad for a while and we have become quite close we have held hands an things however i dnt know wether or not he wants to go any futher or just stay mates. people minght think the simple way to find out is ask but im too chicken poo for tht and dont know weather i should bye a valentines card in case he gets me one. so any one tht can help plz plz do thnx
2007-02-11 03:11:45 · 12 answers · asked by hiyaihopeicanhelp 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, buy a card, no harm done. And in order to know for sure, ask a friend to ask him, that's what I did and things worked out perfectly. And then, I went up to him and said,"Yeah, its true that I like you."
2007-02-11 03:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is all good. If you have held hands you have a "more than friends" intimacy. Its nice. I suspect he does want to go further. If I were you I would just take it easy and wait for it. If you keep it subtle but on the very edge of the line between how a friend would act and how a girlfriend would act, the confusion will compel him into action. Sure buy him a valentines card- its a nice gesture when anyone does it. And best of all its riding that line I mentioned. It will be fine. It sounds like there is potential. Good luck
2007-02-11 03:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw it out there. If you feel this strong about someone he may be having the same feelings. You should find a way to tell him in your own way whatever makes you feel comfortable. It's better to have love and lost then to not have loved at all. If you don't tell him how you feel you may regret it the rest of your life
2007-02-11 03:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by kmfdmiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 01:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by barby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he would like to go futher. and yes you should bye him a card even if he dosent give you one still give it to him you should just know if it seems right to you you should go for it
2007-02-11 03:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask him then you will never know, will you? I don't see the harm in buying him a card. Do it.
2007-02-11 03:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something different buy him is fav baseball heros club cap he will luv it then take it further.............and say you are dying to go out with a fan of this club. he will get your drift now.
Good luck......
2007-02-11 03:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just buy one...he may or not buy one too..but it's cute and i'm sure he'll enjoy getting it...maybe it'll help him or you to see if you guys want to go further in your relationship
2007-02-11 03:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by angelbabytrc07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah buy a card for him
2007-02-11 03:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a card and knit a warm scarf for him...if it doesn't work out, you can always keep the scarf!
2007-02-11 06:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by ChristopheraX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋