So I've been off and on with this guy, matt, at my school and i broke it off a few months ago because i was sick of knowing he was ****** another chick even though he denied it (Iknew he was f***ing her because my friend who's good friends with him told me so, and I know he wasn't lying because he was looking out for me with no other intention)...matt says wants me back now but i really dont think i can trust him anymore since I couldn't even trust him in the beginning. he says he won't do it, but hell i fall for that alot...how could i go about this situation and do whats best for me, because I'm so sick of putting up with his lies. please help.
2007-02-11 02:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by Holly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, in your 1st sentence you summed up that he was doing another chick. What are you doing even sweating this guy? You're the one who's crazy, not him. God made other guys, find yourself another one and move on...unless you just like being dumped on so you have something to ***** about. Would your life be worth living if you didn't have any drama?
2007-02-11 02:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You seem like a smart/sweet girl so let me sum this up for you.
1. This guy Matt that you were dating (and I'm guessing f*cking too) him while he was F*cking at least one other girl. I'm guessing the guy would stick his D*ck in anything that would let him.
2. Go get your self tested make sure you didn't get an STD from this guy. Even if you used a condom.
3. Even though you know its stupid you are going to go back to him. Your going to give it up to him again and he will continue to F*ck around on you.
I'm not trying to be mean here but just think about the way this guy has treated you. He has NO respect for you and you have none for yourself if you keep going back to the guy.
2007-02-11 02:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you couldn't trust him in the beginning, it probably won't get better. You shouldn't have to put up with his selfish lies!! You deserve WAY better! I personally would break it off with him once and for all. It's HIS loss, not yours! He lost his chance with you after all the lies and deceitful things he put you through. He obviously doesn't respect you the way he should be. I personally think you deserve better than him. Find a guy that is truthful to you and is happy with you. Because no one should have to be put through that! Believe me, you'll be doing him a favor in the future cause he'll be missing you so bad and realize how he went wrong and maybe change his ways for future relationships. Don't worry, you'll get over him!!
2007-02-11 02:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by eml033 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never, Never, Never, until you know his true colors, trust any male with your heart. You must protect yourself, or he will shred your spirit. If you know this guy has cheated, walk away. Don't play his sick game. He's lying scum. Don't look back,
2007-02-11 02:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Stormy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't bother yourself with him anymore. My sister's 1st husband was the same way. He'd fak anything, as long as it had a p***y.
2007-02-11 02:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋