how to treat a girl right on a first date?

Question

im starting a new life
my last girlfriend dumped me and may god help her ,,
and ive found some one who realy likes me and not for how i look but for my personality,
so i want to treat her right on the first date and i need asmuch help i can get to make my date right with her,

Answer 1

Try not to get too personal with her.
Flirt with her when you BOTH are ready,
be really slow with her and socialise a bit.
Take her to her fave resturaunt to eat out @,
and have them set up a really romantic place u2.
Have them put on some romantic music for the 2
of you,and then run your fingertips down her right cheek,
take a deep breath,close your eyes,and then kiss her.
She'll really LOVE u for that my friend.
Good Luck with it,
-Mrs.Sarah Lynn Holt

Answer 2

You have to make sure you get out of the friend-zone. I know this sounds silly, but it's really, really true. If you want to be her boyfriend, if you want to see if it can work, you can NEVER get comfortable until you're already past the initial dating and seeing each other pee! You don't want to be "like a brother"!!!!

Rule #1
Dont try to hard. It makes things uncomfortable when you feel like someone is "too" into you. When you feel like they're watching everything you do, say, or notice everything. It's creepy. Like their printing your 2 sentence emails and saving them in their sock drawer. Ewwww.

Rule #2
Don't agree with everything! If i say, I love getting my nails done, don't say "me too!" or, "Yeah, I love it when you get your nails done". You don't have to like the same colors, clothes, food, drinks - don't be scared to say "Oh no, I definitely prefer vanilla".

Rule #3
No talking about past relationships UNLESS she asks. Simple things, like "why are you still single?" are okay, but no detailed stories about how you remember the song thats playing from your 5th date with Jennifer and how you kissed to it in your dads 96' chevy. It's uncomfortable.

Rule #4
Always be polite. Say "please", "thank you", hold doors, etc. Don't go get yourself a drink and food at the movies when she's in the bathroom and you come out first. (Yes, that happened to me.)

Rule #5
INSIST on paying. Unless shes fanatic about womens rights or it truly and deeply offends her to have a man pay for her, do it! Tell her she can MAYBE pay for hers on your next date. This will let her know you want to see her again, in a fun, casual way, and keep you away from the friend-zone, where you always either pay for yourselves or split the bill.

Rule #6
Relax! Have enough time set out that you know what you want to wear, that you've got clean underwear and socks, that you scraped that gum you stepped in off your shoe and don't wear those jeans you haven't washed in 38 days and counting without cleaning them. It will help your confidence if you feel good about yourself, and help EVERYTHING if you don't smell.

Rule #7
Know where you're going, and be on time. If you say you'll be there at 6:30, don't show up at 6:45 without calling. In fact, to ease the showing up early or showing up late uncomfortable-ness, call when you're 5 minutes away and say "Hey, I'm almost there.". She'll appreciate it. Try and decide beforehand what youre doing so you don't drive in circles.

Rule #8
Be thoughtful. "How was your day?", "What did you do this weekend?", "I like your hair, it looks nice." It makes for good conversation when initially breaking the ice, and she'll be likely to respond with the same questions to you all the way until you get to your destination.


One important thing - If you don't normally wear cologne, don't. A lot of guys tend to think it's like a special occasion only thing... If you arranged a date without it, you don't need it. Don't do it, because she might really dislike it, and that could be a *major* turn off.


Goodluck!!!

Answer 3

most important is to be honest and be your self try fine eatery-talk-give her a nickname like ps with stand for personal stash make her feel like what she is god gift to you cause you aint getting any younger just be yourself and have her home by 11 pm show her some old fashion value cause others will try to be in her pants by 11 pm have her home i know it sounds way out what i say it work for me been with the same gift from god for 27 years just be yourself it all in god hands so be cool an open your heart to this women

Answer 4

Buy her a single red rose, open her doors, compliment her, let her choose where you are going, and pay for it.

Answer 5

pay for her, complements not to many tho, talkin and alot of eye contact

Answer 6

open doors for her, look her in the eyes when you talk to her, don't go for sex until you know her well

Answer 7

with respect.