the "l" word. and is there such a thing as too soon.
its been a long time since i dated ifeel like a teen ago-lol. i just dont want to mess this up-hes wonderful
2007-02-11 02:00:53 · 8 answers · asked by amazing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd wait for HIM....most men are pretty skittish, and you don't want to be premature & scare him away!
Congrats on your wonderful man--so many women believe they don't exist, but they DO!!!!
2007-02-11 02:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally women say it first, but there is no hard and fast rule. First couple of dates is probably too soon, but only you can tell, when the time feels right, say it, just dont be too hurt if he does not say it right back to you. He may need a little more time, his reaction will tell you what you need to know.
2007-02-11 10:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not open heart surgery. Just do it and get it over with. Don't complicate something that should be so natural. Either you feel it, or you don't
2007-02-11 10:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls should say it first in my opion b/c some girls get "scared" if the guy says it first and most guys dont share their feelings as much as girls so it will help to open us up to you if the girl says it first
2007-02-11 10:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by hockey_starr_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said it first, but she said it a year later.
2007-02-11 10:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Aric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say it when you feel it and if he cares just saying it wont make him care less or mess it up
2007-02-11 10:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its who ever feels like that first
2007-02-11 10:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels right
2007-02-11 10:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋