Infedilety & love?

Question

Im 30 married but still fell in love with 21 yr girl met her & been physical with her in love, but now feel giulty of what ive done I love my wife, she dosent know abut it, but the Girl says that she wont marry for th erset of her Life & stay like this in my Love she was told by me that Im married but after 1 month when I realised that she is reaching too far. Knowing everything she accepted me as her 1st Love & now not ready to forget me. Im feeling gulity of everything.she now has anew bor friend who knows everything & he curses me like anything day n night of playing with the emotions of an innocent Girl, what do I do Im full of guilt & not able to come out of It.How do I tell her to start afresh & dont bank on me she denies doing that despite of knowing that there is no future with me.Though everything was with the consent of that girl yet is it that Ive done a sin & should look for praishit?
Tell me please

Answer 1

You grow up and you make amends to your wife. You not in love with this 21 year old and you know it. You had a moment of weakness now be a man and move on.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

Well first of all, I'm not a big fan of cheating on your partner. But when you decide to step out of your marriage and have a fling you should be ready for the consequences. Every man says they love their wife, and if that was the case they wouldn't do what they do.Put yourself in your wife's shoes,looking at her everyday, knowing the guilt you feel behind this other woman, not only have you been unfair to your wife,you also been unfair to the other woman, you knew there was no future with her when it started and therefore should not have started it.You say she's moved on and has a boyfriend. Well I suggest you cut off all contact with her and let her move on. The longer you continue to have any contact with her or her boyfriend, you run the risk of your wife finding out,unless you want to tell her the whole story and hope she forgives you. So unless your ready to face the music, I suggest you move on and concentrate on your family.

Answer 3

That's what young girls do. They lie about their virginity get you messed up break your heart and ruin you marriage. You feel guilty because your a pig.
Cheating is cheating and your a pig and a liar and you deserve every ugly feeling your feeling now. The kindest thing you could do is to suffer in silence and hope your wife never finds out. Because in the day she does you will feel even worse than you do now. You reap what you sow buddy! If your looking for pity, you came to the wrong place. Stupid man. What could a 21 year old give you that your wife couldn't. I know an STD and a stupid grin on your face that day after, or was is bragging rights to your equaly stupid 30 something dumb **** friends you feel the need to be better than. Give me a break! Stupid idiot! I hate ******* men that think by doing a little girl will make them feel younger and more verile.............you suck!

Answer 4

dear that was a very bad thing you did and i am not going to try to make u less guilty because u are gulity , the only way to fix it that u come out to that girl with the truth that u can not be with her the nicest way you can and tell her that moving on is the only way she got , her boyfriend could help u with that and stay with her so she would not be very hurt .
as for u and ur wife it is actualy up to u to tell her ar not it depend on how much u love her and care for her feelings
any way if u told ur wife it may be very hard to gain her trust back

Answer 5

Just let it life take its turn continue giving her love but nothing more allow her more time with boyfriend ...her eyes would open up....and theres nothing to feel bad our DNA doesnt allow to stay true longer to the loved ones

Answer 6

Stay completely away from those people. That dude would love to tell your wife.

Answer 7

If bigamy is not permitted among your community, you cannot marry her. Get her married to some broad minded, open hearted, high thinking and unfamiliar boy, who could never suspect her activities, or believe her affairs despite seeing/knowing.

Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgement/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.

However all unwed, premarital, extramarital physical sexual relations are not good, resulting in dissatisfied marital lives, AIDS / STD, and births of bastards/ illegitimates, who mostly think/plan/act perversely & contrary to nature, causing all mischief/disorder/disturbance in the world. Such sexual relations put spouses in search for more betters, and destroy joyful marital lives usually resulting in divorces. High % of divorces and children of broken families are threat to the peaceful world.

. All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.

Answer 8

you should have thought just for once how it would effect your marriage before getting involved. once the trust is lost its difficult to get that back. you have to choose between the two now.

Answer 9

You silly man.

Answer 10

first of all, i can barely undertsand what you're saying. second, you dug yourself that hole, now lie in it.