when 6, a12 year old put his hand in my vagina, my told my therapist who reported it?

Question

when you tell your thrapist you were inasituation when you were 6 and theboy 12 where he put his fingers in your vagina and she reports it to dcf do you have to make a statemet to the police if you don't want to, /if you want to forget about it and you don't want to cause the boy any problems.

Answer 1

It sounds like you are a younger girl still if you are not then disregard the answer I'm giving you.

I know it is hard and scary to tell someone that someone has touched you when you know that they were not to do it. I have been there you do need to tell someone and get it taken care of because if not it will affect you when you are older, it happened to me when I was a child and when I turned 16 it started giving me a whole lot of problems. I wish after it first happened that I had talked to a counselor because then when I was 16 and now I'm 23 I still have some issues so just tell someone that you trust even if you are all grown up it still helps to tell someone because it is not just sitting on your chest weighing you down. please tell someone!!

Good Luck and you will be fine because you are wanting to talk about it because you got on here.

Answer 2

What the boy did is a crime, you cannot do things like that to children. Reporting it was not only your therapist's duty but required by law in most areas. I know you don't want to cause the boy problems, but he has issues that need to be dealt with. He cannot keep victimizing children. I understand you don't want to think about it and you want it to go away, but it doesn't. Something very similar happened to me when I was young, I tried to push it to the back of my head and forget about it. It worked for several years, but when I was an adult and started dating it all came back and caused problems. It still had to be dealt with. If you deal with it now you will save yourself a lot of pain later and the longer you wait to deal with it the longer it will hurt.

Please, stop him from doing this again, make the statement. Deal with what happened in therapy and always remember, it was not your fault.

Answer 3

Listen to Robin T. She's got it right. God Bless both of you. Unfortunately, there are some very sick people in this world, there day is coming.

Answer 4

you dont have to if you dont want to but what if the boy does it again to someone else how would you feel you have to do it for yourself not for someone else good luck and hope you ok