2007-02-11 01:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by cham2x yg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you mean which should you marry, then I know from experience..... NONE OF THE ABOVE alone will cut it. Pick the one who will be there for you when you are at your lowest, like if you lose your job or have a stroke and cant walk. Pick the one who loves you for yourself; the one who lets you be yourself and makes you feel good about yourself.
Trust me, I had a husband who was gorgeous, smart and had money (he was a young, hot doctor, no joke) but I left his *** because he was never on my side, and he knew he was gorgeous and acted like he was better than me.
If you have three women who all love you, and you truly believe that, then I would pick the one you could tolerate waking up next to for the next 30 years; the one who irks you the least. Beauty fades, money comes and goes, and even brains can fade if someone becomes ill (I work in a hospital, I see it every day).
So if you ask me, you are not using the right criteria for a long term relationship.....
Also need to understand the Law of Attraction. Like attracts like. You will draw people to you who are like the energy you give out.
2007-02-11 01:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Amelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brain is necessary, beauty is nice to have, money is for those who are bored of/don't appreciate the other two.
2007-02-11 01:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brain --- money is easy to get and if you love the brain then you think they are beautiful as well
2007-02-11 01:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brains. The sexiest man I know works for a living and isn' t an Adonis but he is sooo smart that it's a turn on.
2007-02-11 04:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by BarbKor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All are necessary for success in most endevours...however too much emphasis on any one will cause problems.
Wisdom is the ability to manage all three of the above and many other ingredients in making a success out of any venture like marriage, business, relationships etc. in life.
2007-02-11 02:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brains
2007-02-11 01:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compatibility with your most dear aspirations from life whatever they are, either have a great love or nice family or even being rich if that's what you want but it's great when your partner agrees about what you want and wants to help you, by being the way you want him to be.
2007-02-11 01:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by ParaskeveTuriya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brain.of theese choices.
2007-02-11 01:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not all three?
2007-02-11 01:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋