2007-02-11 01:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by hitesh a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
advantage is always having that person beside you
disadvantage always having that person beside you
2007-02-11 01:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by john t 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you get married to a good woman....
Advantages:
-waking up to the same person every morning (if that's what you want)
-not having to worry about the dating game anymore
-easier to raise a family
-having someone who love you and supports you
Disadvantages:
-spouses usually change after getting married
-everything that you own is now hers, and the other way around
-you'll be expected to make sacrifices for her and your family
-in laws
-the "flame" will die out eventually and it will take some effort to "light it up"
It's not enough to know that you will be happy with this person, you have to be sure that she is the type of person that will stay happy with you. You don't want someone that will be unfaithful or will run out on you the minute you go broke, get laid off, etc. and can't buy her jewlery and clothes anymore. There are more disadvantages than advantages, but the advantages outweigh the disadvantages as long as your truly happy.
2007-02-11 09:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Live4theWeekend 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are as many advantages as disadvantages in a marriage. What really matters is which aspect of marriage you want to look at and you really look at.
2007-02-11 10:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by ndeepuachari 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The advantages
- You get loved and you give Love in return
- The only best environment to raise up children
- Security
- The reason why both sexes was created by our Creator in the first place.
- Blessing for God...for he instituted marriage and He pronouced it as a good.
- Increase spiritual strength..."One shall chase a thousand ...two shall chase ten thousand.
- Foundation for the soceity
- The best place...health wise and with the blessing of your maker... to have wonderful free and guiltless sex.
- Solution to the sexual transmitted disease menace of our time.
Disadvantages
- None that I know off...if one follows the makers guidelines in how it to be married and love it.
- Can be a disaster if you have immatured so-called adults trying to be married partners....mind you not every male in trousers is a man and not every lady in a skirt is responsible woman either.
- Ignorance of how marriage should carried out is the source of all the problems.
2007-02-11 09:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dazanix 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The advantage is supposed to be security, but the way divorce rulings have been going...marriage is nothing more than a bunch of red tape, going in and comming out.
2007-02-11 09:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
To have a companionship. When you find the one that is right for you it is the very best and you really start living life to the fullest. It’s not picking the one that is the sexiest today for she or he will grow old as you will also. If you pick the right one based on their heart and not money or looks then you will enjoy life with them. Those that complain do so because they picked wrong … or think it’s cool to put down their mate for everyone around us does. Funny thing is that if they do that … they look cool or make their friends laugh at that moment but they take it back later when they are alone with their mate. The key to happiness is to up lift your mate and for them to up lift you. Don’t be cool enjoy life.
2007-02-11 09:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jose M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think it all depends on the relation....if u have a beautiful relationship...i mean both are equally loyal loving and caring..it's heaven..thts an advantage...if any one of the person is not able to adjust..it becomes ruined...tht now becomes a disadvantage...overall marriage is a beautiful relation
2007-02-11 09:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Krits 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Talk about these things before getting married:
Children; when and how many?
Discipline; will you hit those children?
Money; Is money important to your happiness, would it affect your ability to be happy/content?
Saving Habits; Are you a spender or a saver? What about your future spouse?
Goals; What do you want to accomplish, great career?, large family? Travel? etc.
Religion; What do you believe in, what are you open to? Are you tolerant toward others beliefs?
Priorities; Where do all these play in your life? Can you put aside your own wants to include another persons input? Can you be happy if you have to give up a few things but are able to get something bigger in return?
The problem with those statistics about marriage (which are totally misleading) is not about marriage at all, it's about communication between two people. If you have discussed these things (above) in depth, and you are lucky enough to find someone compatible, you should find a connection that surpasses any you have ever experienced because you will have found someone on the same path as you.
Match.com and all those sites aren't doing magic, they're getting people to focus on whats important to them and putting that up front to find like-minded matches....DUH! That is harder to do when you are already in a relationship. The above mentioned topics are pretty critical subjects that you should agree on when considering marriage and raising a family, and disagreements about these things will definitely lead you to divorce, and why wouldn't they? I wouldn't put up with someone beating my kid if I'd been abused as a child and wanted alternative methods of discipline. I wouldn't stay with someone who blows all our money when I'd like a house and a large family. I wouldn't be with someone who wants to dig in their heels when I want to travel and see the world. It's really common sense!!!!
The problem is the prospect of having to start all over again when you realize the person you've invested in for 2 years isn't "the one".
It's easier to think they'll change after marriage than to walk away and begin again. Hence, you have people getting married that shouldn't be, messing with these popular "statistics" that everyone loves to quote.
Same goes with the sex. If you have someone who places a lot of importance on sex, they should not be paired up with someone who does not, which leads to a lot of other details, do they take care of themselves? Have a high self esteem? Adventurous? These will all effect sexual compatibility, don't forget creativeness!
I've been with my man, (who is now my husband) for 4 years now and although we have our "slow" times every now and then, when we ARE all pumped up, we're still discovering new things about our likes and dislikes in the bed. The important thing is that I found someone who is patient and honest and we talked about all these things before getting married.
Advantage: You have someone you can be honest with about yourself, your goals, your life.
Disadvantage: These present themselves in a relationship without communication.
2007-02-11 19:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
advantages is getting some and disadvantages is not getting any.
2007-02-11 09:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by macksu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
legal marriage help the life of their children and disadvantage is they had obligations
2007-02-11 17:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋