My brother (who is eleven) has been coming home telling me about this fat boy who has been bullying him (fat boy is 15), recently the fat boy got my brother in a head-lock and kicked him in the stomach, now I say that that is the last straw, I will Stalk my prey (prey = fat boy) and I will hunt him down and beat him for a while....I am 16....is this right? also I have been trying to tell the boy to stop countless times but the boy thinks that I will not hurt him and only just tell him to stop...
2007-02-11 01:12:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i suggest telling your parents, then they can talk to the boy's parents or to the school, if you take action, that might just get you in trouble,, and let the bully go free,,,,, so dont fight him or beat on him,, yes you are just a year older, but you are suppose to know better/more,,, plus if you end up in trouble with the police, that will just make the bully happy,,,,,, so go the official route with the parents/school,,, or else call the police,,,,, charges can be filed against the bully for hitting your brother,,,,,,that way he might end up in juvenile jail, instead of you,,,, or atleast the threat of it might end the problem
ps: keep in mind bullies are weak, and self -centered, you hit him, you know he will run to parents, school , police etc
2007-02-11 01:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In some cases at 16 years old, if Fatboy decides to go to the police (or his parents do) you may be held accountable as an adult. However, at 15 Fatboy himself will have the same going against him in a few months if he continues to behave this way. It may have serious repurcussions even now if there was a formal complaint made. You could also check into a restraining order, although as a minor I'm not sure much would be done if he broke the order. This sure is a tough call but I think in the end your brother needs to be the one to kick Fatboys butt. Teach your brother a few tricks if need be to get his confidence up. I normally would say violence is never the answer, but I have a child who is now 12, and I'm seeing that it might just be what needs to be done. But you pounding on Fatboy will only make him fear YOU, not teach him anything or gain respect for your brother. I wish I had better advice for you.
2007-02-11 11:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is a job for your Dad. I don't know your family situation but your Dad needs to go have a talk with fatboys Dad. If this is not a option you may need to kick some ***, but consider this; bullies that get their asses beat are the first ones to go cryin to the cops or Mommy and Daddy or the principle or whatever, as a minor though you could probably get away with it with minimal consequences, but there will be consequences, or you could teach your little brother how to defend himself, teach him to stand up for himself. Teach him how to take a bloody nose and keep coming and when he's ready tell him to go look for fatboy himself and not to back down no matter how many times it takes to get the job done, someday fatboy will get his and your little brother will learn some valuable lessons along the way. good luck dude, none of the above is gonna be easy.
2007-02-11 09:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ray H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your concerns for your younger brother are justified. And your approach so far also seems okay. However, before you plunge into reactive violence, think several times. The offender suffers obesity and seems to have unstable mind. In all probability, one time suggestive correction does not get into his mind. But then, physical assaults on him also may not deliver fruits. he may still continue to punch your younger brother. You need to find a long term remedy and for that the fat boy may need your empathy too. He (the fat boy) may require counseling and your friendly exhortations to him may be the initiation of this much required therapy.
2007-02-11 09:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by braj k 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol, bullies....
One your lil brother needs to learn to avoid this bully.
Two, knowing what the consequences maybe, he needs to stand up for himself and strike back (mentally or physically). All you will do is most likely postpone things a bit.
I in my youth years was a small framed kid. I had some of the same problems till I stood my ground. Yeah, I got my butt kicked, but in the end it all stopped. Today, one of the oldest rivals I had is my best friend. We had our share bloody noses and cut lips, but if I could go back and do it again, I wouldn't change a thing.
Oh, if possible be there to back your lil bro. Family protects family!
2007-02-11 09:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by IndianaHoosier 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Snitching probably will get your brother in more trouble. You may be on the rite track. Remember though dint get yourself in trouble by going too far.
2007-02-11 09:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Triplndy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, generally I don't believe in violence, but we're talking about teens, and lets face it, we all remember our emotions back then.
Therefore, here is my advice: Walk up to him and beat the hell out of him with a belt, just like his dad. It will shock the hell out of him, and it will make me laugh.
2007-02-11 09:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by tombollocks 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever it takes dude. Sound like you've warned him too many times and he's not taking u seriously. I think it's nice you're watching out for family.
2007-02-11 09:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lily 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
o man! let the fattie have it! bring him down a notch!
hes probally taking his fustrations out on your brother because kids make fun of him for being fat.
but as a big bro, its your job to let fattie know your serious, and not to mess with your bro again.
2007-02-11 09:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Motherload 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him not to and if he still does punch him but not really bad.
2007-02-11 09:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋