Not a question just a thank you?

Question

Thank you to all who answered i'v made my decision I am going to go in its not easy because I feel like I have failed

Answer 1

Failure only comes to those who fail to do nothing.
You are doing the right thing

Answer 2

I think you made the right decision. Going into hospital is a hard decision. But, you will be happy you have made it. It will be the best in the long run. I know how you feel. I have been there. I ended up staying in the child psychiatric unit for 2 weeks. I missed march break, and a party, and other fun stuff but I got help. I was 16 when I made that decision, I am now almost 18 and SO SO SO happy did it. You have not failed, you succeeded. You have succeeded in helping yourself. You made the first step. You did the hardest part! Congrats! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Man, this depression has me screwed up. Got up to make the wife breakfast only to realize its Sunday and she's not going to work. Maybe I should check myself in too but last time they kicked me out after a few hours because they were too busy. Better luck staying in there for a while. Feeling like a failure is part of the disease and yeah I feel like that too all the time.

Answer 4

You have not failed yourself you are making a decision that will hopefully make you a lot happier and healthy in the future. You are accepting you need help and facing up to it . Don't ever think you have failed hunny.

I have suffered with depression for 10 years i have learnt to live with it . I accepted help and so thankful I did.

I wish you all the very best xxx

Answer 5

well done you, you have made a brave decision, you now can take a step forward in your own healing proccess. the fact that you acknowledge your illness, then ask for help, then accept it makes you stronger than you believe you are right now... you CAN do this, just go with the flow and heal, all the best to you YOU WILL GET OVER THIS xxx

Answer 6

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 7

failure would be if you did nothing you are doing something so HOW HAVE YOU FAILED best of luck to you YOU ARE A WINNER IN MY BOOK IF ONLY PEOPLE WERE AS BRAVE AS YOU TO TAKE MATTERS IN HAND & SORT OUT THERE PROBLEMS YOUR NO 1!

Answer 8

You haven't failed.

You're alive and looking for help and reaching out to people.

You're winning and will continue to... keep going

Answer 9

dont be afraid of 'failure' it's part of being human! stuff the world go and do your thing and shine like a star.
Good luck!

Answer 10

I have'nt the faintest idea what your talking about....But thanks any way...and I would like to thank all the people who is going to thank you on my behalf.