I know he cares somewhat about me because he has come to my place at 4am(and no he didn't want sex). We've been only dating 6 weeks and at first it was great. I would send him a text message saying that i miss him and he would always respond back that he missed me too.He works between 50-60hrs a week and his only day off is Sundays, which he's had to work before also. Here lately however he doesn't respond to my messages all the time.I understand because at work it can be a little hectic and it might just slip his mind. We are suppose to celebrate v-day today and i asked him if he was still coming over. He replied i have alot to do and i'm not sure what time i can make it. He usually comes over around 10p once is daughter is in bed.I asked him well can't u just come over around the usual time and he said no. Since he has worked on Sundays before i asked if if he had to work and he said no i just got some s*it to do. I am so confused. When i see him he gives me alot of attention.
2007-02-10 22:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by koliver1973 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never been happier since i started dating him. Should i just hang in there and hope things will change. He told he would like to get married someday.
2007-02-10 23:08:08 · update #1
It sounds like you've got yourself a good guy. Think about it, he works 50-60 hours a week and he has a daughter to think about and care for. That doesn't leave him with much time to do things for himself or that he needs to take care of. When he's at work, I'm sure he doesn't have time to txt back & forth and you should understand that. Hang in there and be understanding of him. If you pressure him, he may run because he's got enough pressure in his life right now. It sounds like he has given you all the time he can and you said he treats you good,. so be happy. Don't worry so much about things. Relax, be yourself, be supportive and enjoy him when you can.
2007-02-10 23:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i really am sorry for you being all confused and all, but maybe you should start talking to him seriously and asking him about what is really going on, explain to him how this is being very difficult for you not knowing what is going on. You would want to know if you would still continue to feel that way you are feeling for him or just move on.Tell him to just be fair with you and whatever answer he gives you just accept it. I am sure you are a wonderful girl ,whether he is busy at work or he has another reason for how he is avoiding you , i am sure you'll be okay. You have to know why right :) Good luck!
2007-02-11 07:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by bones_22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him if ur not comfortable in this situation. if you both wnt things to go on, then surely u'll both need time. tell him he needs a break and that u would like to be with him more, not as a tired person from work but as a happy guy well rested and have a very manageable time. ^^
2007-02-11 07:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by maila_venus9193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then, try stay cool, and not ask him for all these stuff so much....wait for him to ask you out or celebrating any special ocasions......and if he pays you much attention apart from his busy schedual then give him the chance, talk to him and tell him your expectations, come to a mutual understanding and try to understand his position as well.....
2007-02-11 07:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is working 60 hours a week, he has stuff to do.
2007-02-11 07:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is scared of a real relashonship bucause he has a daughter and he only want best 4 his daughter and him
2007-02-11 07:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by jaja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time esp. for himself as uve said he's working long hours...but it doesn't mean u just have to wait for him...he's still not ur bf right? den try to go out with other guys out der...u c 'time' & attention is wat we girls r looking for in our guys...if dey can't give it to us, relationship is useless...it's part of commitment, having time for each other.
2007-02-11 07:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋