pls help me. i'm passing from a guy problem.
1st. do u think that sending a valentine card from a secret admirer a good idea? and what do u write if yes?
2nd do u think that because you're not slim, no one will love you?
I love a guy that i see him at the church during mass. Sometimes i catch him staring at me( or just looking) But exactly as i look at him, he lookes down( embaressed or what?). So are there any possibilities that he loves me?
3rd do u think that giving a V-day present to a teacher a good idea? only as a friend!!!
i'm 14 and never had a bf before...............
and i lvoe him. every thought that i have during day and night lie on him. Whenever i think about him and whenver i see him, my heart jumps a leap!!
2007-02-10 21:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by m.buffon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know that song by James Blunt="Your Beautiful"?Thats you hes talking about. Just remember when the whole world falls into your lap, dont let it get to your head. Guys like girls who have agood heart.Just like how girls like when guys are the same. You are off to a good start and good things come to those who wait.
2007-02-10 21:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by rockstarhooligan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. The secret admirer thing can be good and bad. I've had it happen to me and the excitement of it was fun and the things I thought of while I didn't know were fun, but when things stopped being secret, it turned out that the person wasn't everything I had hyped her up to be in my head.
2. Not being slim does not exclude one from being loved. I truly believe that there is a person out there for everyone. I know a lot of women who are overweight that have found someone to love them. The guy at church may just be embarrassed that you caught him looking. This sounds as if he may be shy.
3. A Valentine's day present to a teacher is probably a bad idea. Valentines day is supposed to be a romantic "holiday". You very well could send the wrong signals and cause awkwardness. If you want to show this teacher that you appreciate their friendship, then a card that names this person as a friend would be better then an actual gift.
You asked for advice....These answers are my opinion based on the small amount of info you have provided. Your circumstances very well could have indicators, that you have not shared, that could change my interpretation. Hope this helps.
2007-02-10 22:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How cute!
A Valentine from a secret admirer is not a bad idea, but he may think that it's from someone else and give that person more attention, so be careful. It's best to say who you are.
There are people of all shapes and sizes that are loved, sweetie. Just look around you. I am sure that you will see slimmer and better looking people in love, and I am sure that you will see much heavier and not-as-attractive people who are also in love.
As for the guy at church, you have a crush and it seems that he senses you looking. The only way to know anything about him is to politely walk up and introduce yourself and take it from there. You are cute...good luck.
2007-02-18 20:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweet doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sent a secret admirer Valentine to a boy I liked when I was 14 and it turned out that we were just good friends. Go ahead and send it. Say "There's something about you that I admire.
Gazing upon you I shall never tire.
But this card I shall not sign.
Come look for your secret Valentine."
Give him a little mystery then causally make a remark when he is in hearing range about sending secret Valentine cards. I would say light make up would be good for you. Don't pack it on, mascara, a soft eye shadow and some lip shine. Some men do like girls who are not fat but fluffy as I would call it.
Good luck.
I don't think giving a Valintine gift to your teacher is a good idea.
2007-02-10 21:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by greylady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok to send a valentines day card to someone as a secret admirer.
Just tell him how you feel about him on the card.
No it is not true that no one will love you if you are not slim
Think you have a crush on the guy from church. Its normal for someone your age to experience this.
Y dont u go up to him and introduce yourself? Even if you find out later that he doesnt like you the way you like him, at least you gain another friend.
No please do not give a V-dat present to your teacher!!!!
2007-02-10 21:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats kool. you are exact on 14. chasing the eyes and indulging with your teachers!!! That guy at church is admiring your tulip youth but its not love.
Yes! give your teacher a V-Day present and start experiencing like real adults. It is your indulgence with your teacher never b in love with him. Dont make a wrong move and keep looking for a mate of your age group.
envoy dreams and thoughts at night. Thats an asset! adrenaline rush!
2007-02-10 21:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by replicable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should write a v-card and write about his interests if you know any maybe write how much he looks good and stuff like that i think he likes you reading what you said about in the church personally giving a teacher a v-day present is not a good idea seeing as you could be tormented by whitneses at the scene. i have had the same feeling every night about a boy i like but by the looks of yours he likes you too gd luck
2007-02-10 21:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pastinie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes send a card and write what you feel. weight doesnt really matter too much. I think he likes you. and forget the teacher thing
2007-02-10 21:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off... I highly doubt that you are in love with this kid, secondly, no he isn't embarrased to be looking at you, he might just be embarrassed that you CAUGHT him... I do the same thing, it is kind of awkward when you lock eyes with a person that you are looking at. and lastly... don' tworry so much... be yourself, that will get you further than anything else!
2007-02-18 21:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentina day is a great day to send words of Love open!
2007-02-11 00:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋