has anyone ever been in a relationship where the guy treated you like a princess in every way....but you guys just didnt get along or he was a bit too clingy so you had to break it off? i just did. i tried for so long to make it work bc he treated me so nicely. but eventually, the negative side was too much. did i maybe possibly do the wrong thing? does anyone feel me here..? =)
2007-02-10 21:38:56 · 13 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had to do that and let me tell you that it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life. It took so much will power. It has been 10 months since I have seen my ex and it still hurts when I think about him. It will get easier and easier over time.
2007-02-10 21:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have not given sufficient information, and everyone and stipulations are diverse, if somethings bothering him interior the relationship, then likely he's so drained that he desires to imagine about it wen u r not there and then come to a call about it if u have reported or done something which has disillusioned him then also above element applies if all of a unexpected he reported this, wen there are not any complications in besides then likely and regrettably he's cing some different person in spite of everything i wud say supply hima smash and may b after say a week or 10 days( relies upon how lengthy u can stay faraway from him), if he would not come back, in basic terms ask him, if he nevertheless would not answer then likely and once back regrettably its time to assert see you later inspite of the type of large lecture, i wud say....Ur heart knows the superb and in basic terms keep on with ur heart
2016-11-27 00:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... It happened to me... At first he was clingy for 2-3yrs.. Then he slowly cool down a bit (bit still very strict , as in he will ask mi where i went and dun allow mi to go out late at nite) We just break up today, aft 5+yr (c my questions to find out more)... One of he reason is that he was over-protective and I complained abt him to my friends. He dun like the idea that I told the negative things (n not the +ve things abt him to my friends).
The moral of the story is, dun get into a relationship with a clingy guy.
2007-02-10 21:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Chen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just too available to you. No one wants to be the only available source. Even if you liked him, being clingy can be a huge turn off. I think you made the right decision because the more insecure he would become, the more needy he would be, too. Sorry that you had to end it but it wasn't working out for you personally.
2007-02-10 21:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he was too clingy or there wasn't hot chemistry and so it didn't work out. At least you tried and so no regrets.
Sounds like he's a stand up guy so you'll know he'll treat the "RIGHT" girl well.
At least you know that there's great guys out there. It just so happens that you didn't find one that's compatible with you.
Good luck.
2007-02-10 21:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was truly the perfect guy then you possibly made the wrong decision. if his only fault was he was too clingy then you should have said look, I really like you and we have the perfect relationship but you are getting too clingy and I can't breathe. please back off a little or we will have to part ways
2007-02-10 21:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better not to go with the perfect guy. Perfect Guys are usually narcissistic kinna. One great advantage being with them is you learn a lot. And thats it. But break nicely too....
2007-02-10 21:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by replicable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what your saying. so ask yourself this would it be best to lie to him and stay in a relationship to make him happy? would it be best to make yourself suffer therefore make him suffer as well, making you both miserable and eventually hate each other? so it was probably for the best. but i wonder why you really broke up with him. anyway i wish you both the best.
2007-02-10 22:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect guy. Most of you girls seem to stay with guys who abuse you. I am a great guy and girls abuse me. All of you girls are all a like. You don't know hoe to treat a nice guy.
2007-02-10 21:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main thing s do you love him or do you feel you aint in love with him
anymore.
if u lv him why did u finish
if u dont u did t right thing
best of luck 4 x
2007-02-10 21:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by md m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋