pls help me. i'm passing from a guy problem.
1st. do u think that sending a valentine card from a secret admirer a good idea? and what do u write if yes?
2nd do u think that because you're not slim, no one will love you?
I love a guy that i see him at the church during mass. Sometimes i catch him staring at me( or just looking) But exactly as i look at him, he lookes down( embaressed or what?). So are there any possibilities that he loves me?
3rd do u think that giving a V-day present to a teacher a good idea? only as a friend!!!
i'm 14 and never had a bf before...............
and i lvoe him. every thought that i have during day and night lie on him. Whenever i think about him and whenver i see him, my heart jumps a leap!!
2007-02-10 21:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by m.buffon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will answer them one by one. 1st, sending a guy a v card without your name is a bad idea.the guy might think that you are a crazy person. dont do that.2ndly, you might be chubby but love has nothing to do with it. there are a lot of people who are fat but are very happy with themselves and their partners. people will love you , not your body. but be fit and smile. then the world will smile at you. as your fourth question, you are only 14. the guy is i presume, your age too? boys mature late. so, you might say that he is also in love but is really shy. you are a girl and as girls mature early, you are not shy. so my advice is, the next time you see him, go upto him and say "hi". dont worry about your weight and dont send any silly cards. just talk to him .dont lose this chance.
2007-02-10 21:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Gurl, Ur 14? Ok, well love is a very intense emotion esp when u feel it for the first time. U feel glorious & sad all at the same time. So, is it Love? Well, he is definitly interested in looking at u but that maybe as far as it goes. I have had guys do that to me. Love is more than that first attraction. He may be shy, but he may also just be a turd. It's a compliment I imagine, but You hafta follow through--like the song sez. Maybe that doesn't matter right now, but know this will not be the last time that ur heart will have the chance to dance. Take care of urself--go to the movies, dances, school and church. Remember, ur the prize and any man that will b worth ur time has to have the guts & creativity enuf to figure how to talk to such a wonderful person as U!! An important point to remember: Boys will come & go, lol, but you'll still be there. So only do things that will allow to live with urself afterward!
2007-02-11 19:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen you're in a very special time in your life. There is no greater wonder than those first feelings of butterflies in your stomach. Hold them close, revel in them. Only take it slow, don't rush things. Love is an addictive thing. And like most addictions can lead to pain. Right now there is time. It seems this boy definitely has a sweet tooth for you, sending him a valentines would probably make his day. Secret admirers are really romantic. Write something teasing. Like hints about who you are. As to the teacher , send a group card From several classmates and your self.
2007-02-19 02:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by shesonit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
secret admirer is the silliest thing, don't think about it..
and being slim doesn't mean no one will love you, coz people love you for who you are, not what you are(unless you have alotta money)...
giving a v-day present to a teacher? maybe he's married!!
just be yourself and be confident, you'll find who you REALLY want..
2007-02-11 05:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sending him 'friendly' v-day card is a good idea. Don't send it anonymously, though. Use your name. Give it to him in person. Have courage. And guard your heart.
2007-02-11 05:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by deregulution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill honey, your time will come. But now now. Just stand back and let the season pass. Really.
2007-02-11 05:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to know a person to love or hate them......... love doesnt happen jus like that even though crap says it does..............grow up... literally to feel love n know it !
2007-02-19 04:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋