Dear people in Christ,
Iam a 22/female born-again believer.My parents were divorced when i was 17.I fell in love with a man, who's a pastor's son.He had recieved 2 prohecies from GOD thru his father regarding the girl he wud marry.
1)The girl he marries will be the only daughter to her parents.
2)The girl's parent's will come to his home together.
Im the only daughter at home and myself and my man were praying for my parents to re-unite so that the prophecies gets fulfilled.Last dec,he came home to visit all my people,met my parents in their places.One day during that week, we both slept togther n hence have sinned against GOD.
Now since my parents havent re-united yet, he is reluctant to marry me cos in so doing he shall walk against the prophesy God gave him.
I cant even think of marrying anyother guy and cheating him in name of marraige.What must i do? must i talk to his parents? Iam soo rejected and decieved.Please helppp this sinner...plssss
2007-02-10 21:13:29 · 19 answers · asked by jerusha j 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Private prophecy is often self serving, highly conditional, and usually false. This is spelled "BS".
And absolutely no Christian is required to accept or believe anything that someone else claims God "spoke" to them alone.
Leave his parents out of it. It's time to tell this fellow to fish or cut bait.
Tell him you prophesy that if he doesn't set a marriage date immediately, he'll be sleeping with someone else, and not you, in the future.
Then, say no more, turn around, walk out, and never look back.
If he shows up with a ring and a proposal, and is willing to set a date for the wedding, consider taking him back, but make him wait at least two days before you accept or reject his proposal.
If he doesn't propose, forget about him and his whole family, and find somebody new. Preferably, somebody who doesn't think he's Elijah.
2007-02-10 21:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thank God you are a sensible girl. You realise your mistakes and are repentant. God will surely forgive you. Just place yourself at His mercy seat and pour out your spirit to Him.
Prophecies are a tricky matter. You cannot trust anyone with prophesies because you cannot validate them. Only test is through the Word of God. Ask your b/f about the prophecies? On what scriptures were they based? Prophecies can be subjected to scriptural authority. Other than that, they are fake. Both your b/f and his father are fake. They are not real Christians. Otherwise, why would a believer have sex before marriage and why is he going back to marry you after having sex? It proves that he is a cheater. A no good vagabond. Leave him at once. Confess your sin to God and He will let you find a true Christian. Meanwhile spend time in prayer regarding all this. You will get sure shot answers from God Himself and not through fake Christians and their fake prophecies.
2007-02-11 20:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't real clear on this prophecy from GOD and why you validate it to be from GOD. Why do you believe it to be a valid prophecy? (That is key here.) Why did he sleep with you if he only wanted to marry the girl in the "prophecy"??? Something doesn't add up here. Praying for your parents to reunite only so a prophecy can be fulfilled is folly. Even if the two of you believe in that prophecy, it will either happen or it won't ... praying will not alter it. It appears to me that this young man has already dishonored you by sleeping with you if he had no intention of marrying you. Don't let him fool you. Why would you want a man who would do this to you??? Move on. Everything works out in time.
2007-02-10 21:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi
First of all i would like to say you somethng. The moment when you humble youself as a sinner, u are qualified to recieve God's grace. Really your issue is a critical one, and myself being in love with a girl, i can understand your problem clearly. Listen sister, God has a plan for everyone of us. We cant question God. All that you can do is, go to ur parents and cry to them saying your situation. Try your best to make them re-united. Also talk with your lover to wait for sometime. Onemorething, keep on praying. Prayer brings victory. Prayer is the secret of success. Stay pure. Stay with God as much as you can. Surely He will help you out.
Dont worry sister. Our God is a lively God. He is looking on you now. Cry to God. He will give you peace.
Any help you want from this brother, I am ready to do.
I too will pray for you sister.
You can mail me at anytime. The real solution for your problm is in praying. Speak with God like a friend. God will never forsake us.
God bless you sister.
Awaiting more mails from you.
Your brother,
Rajan.J.Moses
2007-02-11 03:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey what are u doing ur behaving as if those humans and people own ur life and without them ur nothing God is the one who can judge you .You submit to God and pray to him he will show u the way if u get too wrapped up with the prophet instead of the God who lives u lose focus and dont compromise ur virtue dont sleep with that guy again if he wants to leave let him leave so im saying seek God urself its hard but u have to pray by urself or those pple will mess u up
2007-02-10 21:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you are brave to ask this question.
You need to pray. You need also to be very careful about accepting "prophecy" from another person. If you test it against scripture does it stand up? I am always skeptical of people who claim to have had prophecies from God, because there is no way of denying this to them because 'it was from God'. However, God doesn't contradict himself, so if the 'prophet' says something that doesn't agree with scripture, his/her prophecy is not from God.
Yes, you have sinned by having premarital sex, but you are repentant and God will forgive you. You need to talk with him and work out what you are going to do.
Pray for wisdom and don't rely on your feelings, trust God and rely on his Word.
2007-02-10 21:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by pennoes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't complicate the love, mercy and grace of God. God always forgives with repentance.
As far as the prophetic word, what you are saying and the way it is treated is something which borders telling the future in a bad way like fortune telling.
You are putting more into what was said than a God who is bigger than all of that.
2007-02-10 21:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by greatnewsbearer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what make these prophecies from God
i am born again christian
and i don't think this is the way that God using to let people get married.
please check these prophecies with prophets people in a trusted church where they don't know the father.
pray and fast to know God will.
God cares about u a lot, he wants u to be happy and he want to bless you, God has a wonderfull thoughts on you.
2007-02-10 21:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by الحقيقة 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a whack job who's been using you dear. In all likelihood he probably invented that story just so he didn't have to marry you. Most people who get divorced will never get re-married, so the chances of your folks getting back together are very low, he no doubt knows this which is why he is using that. He's a con man.
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