She puts off the light, why?

Question

whenever we are ready for intercourse my sweetie tells me 2 first switch off the lights before the game kicks off. idont like it bt when i try to resist, she chickens out. cud there be any problem or she is jus shy. yes ihv a threatening whooper bt that does nt mean, she shud fear seeing it. iam nt scared atall. ilove making it when there is light. she is beautiful and am handsome.wat do i do?

Answer 1

Don't blame yourself. She is just shy. I was the same way with my boyfriend. It will get better over time.

Answer 2

You see many ladies have some kind of complex which makes them don't like themselves completely. They always find some imperfections on their bodies, and they don't want to keep the light on because that way they can hide in the shadow. It's a childish behaviour that comes from unsureness and low self-esteem. What can you do? Be patient on her and try to make her feel at ease, be careful and gentle. Do not insist if she says she wants the light off, but instead make her understand with words and acts that you very much like her body.
A nice way would be to make love in the dark with some candles, so that she can slowly accept some pale and low lights at first.

Answer 3

Get wise. Almost all women want it in the dark. If you were doing your job at helping her to feel beautiful she would have every light in the house on. You can do it with words and your actions. Society has given us so much to compare ourselves to. Men don't have this problem. But, I know it can be done because I went from sex FULLY CLOTHED (no kidding) to exactly that - every light ablaze - because the right man took the right action. Learn how to build up a woman.

Answer 4

Well, she's definitely not afraid of the dark.
Being insecure of nudity could be a major factor. Whether she has a nice body, or you have a nice body, she is grossed out by something. Maybe you are leaving out some facts....maybe?
Try candlelight first. you know, the 'romantic thing'...then invest in some dimmer switches, or motion detectors outside, and have your dog run back and forth across them often for the strobe affect.

Answer 5

Some women think they are fat even when they are beautiful. Some are embarrassed about how they look even though you think she the woman of your dreams. Tell her things about how she looks. Like you have such and angelic face. You have such a radiant smile. Add words like such, so, Your so beautiful. Let her know that you like here just the way she is. May take time but the lights may stay on when she is confident that you don't see any flaws even the ones she thinks she may have.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Most woman feel insecure about their bodies and wonder especially during sex, about how they look. What she is not aware of is that you know every bump and curve of her body by now and making love with the lights on, gives her the chance to see you enjoy her body.

Maybe start small, try some candles.

Answer 8

well some women r just shy 2 do it when the lights r on...and u have 2 live with that or u can talk 2 her about it

Answer 9

if u luv her respect her feeling and enjoy in the dark. it happens during the early days and with the passing time it will be ok and then u can enjoy in the light also. it makes me to recall my first night when during the engagement i wanted to put on liight for some reason but then my wife gave me the hug of life and pulled toward her for not letting me to switch on. otherwise she was lying dull. and to experience this ejoyment i impersonated many times my intention to switch on !!!!!!!!! so have a great time !!!

Answer 10

Some girls are so romantic and all their lives dream to do it in candle light or dark places , so try to do it at candle light and see if she accepts so she is romantic , if she also didn't accept then there is something about marry .