2007-02-10 21:05:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am totally fine if it was just looking!!!! But he was intensely flirting with his eyes! I never saw him looking at me the way he was flirting with that girl! I confronted him and he said:"you know I am into 3some and I thought it is OK for you since you!!!!!!" Do you think he is totally insensitive?
2007-02-10 21:18:49 · update #1
Yes.... it's very rude. n
2007-02-10 21:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is disrespectful.
My mom and dad are still married, and he has never physically cheated on her.
He has however, glanced a few times at ladies who were exceptionally good looking.
Keep in mind, we are humans, not gods, and lust is the most hardest thing to control. In fact, to control it entirely would make us perfect, I guess, in that sense, but looking at the sales and figures of porn on dvd and online, I take it billions are having the same problem.
If they love you, hopefully they will never "cheat" on you in a physical sense.
On the other hand, if the bible is right, Soloman was the wisest man ever and ended up with 1,000 women, while Sampson was the strongest and fell for a woman.
King David was married and had a soldier sent to the front lines to kill him off faster so he can sleep with his wife.
If the strongest men in all history couldnt control lust, does that mean we are all doomed?
2007-02-11 05:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of girls he looks at. I like fat white women & I cant help staring, even though I have someone. . Most people be looking away from them but I love it when ones wearing something tight or beds over to pick something up. It usually creates a disturbance in public becasue people be trying to get out of the way. So i guess he could be like me.
2007-02-11 05:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree it is very rude , you should give him a taste of his own medicine, find a sexy young man and dont take ur eyes off him :) even say to him ,wow look at him he is hot , he looks good in those jeans . when he starts pouting remind him of how u felt each time he did that. if nothing works ,girl get rid of him.
2007-02-11 05:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by mala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not at all disrespectful. It only shows that he is a guy and not an impotent person. As long he remains your guy and does not go physical with any other female, its perfectly ok.
Honey, guys will always make eye contact with other girls which will give them a kick to make more love to you. Give proper space to your guy.
2007-02-11 05:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes its either u have to come to terms with it or leave him if u r the possessive type. cos this fellow is not going to change ever he may stop doing it in front of u but who knows behind u r back what transpires.if u r okay with it then tell him to control himself in ur company.if it were me in ur place id pack my bags.
2007-02-11 05:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by rupali k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those kinda of guys have higher chance of cheating on you later on if they find someone who is hotter than you. Or w/e he thinks. Just tell him it bothers you, if he truly loves you he wont do it. Although its normal for guys and girls, and sometimes my GF does that, not too much, but sometimes. But she truly loves me, i noe. So if u think u guys have a strong love bond, i dont think u should worry bout. Other than that, if he keeps doing it, i think u should find someone who would only look at u. Thats wat i do to my GF becos i truly love her :]
2007-02-11 05:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Marty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is he turning heads, making small comments and pausing in mid-sentence to observe ladies when he is speaking with you?
yeah thats rude and ignorant.
confront him with it, tell him how you feel about it, no hostility in your explanation or risk him going on the defensive. if he refuses or blows it off, you might look into other venues.
2007-02-11 05:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋